I am sexually attracted to women, but don't like most women in general. I find almost every woman that I meet to be weak, overly emotional, and stupid. I don't know if I can truly connect with any woman on a basis that's not solely sexual. There just don't seem to be women that fit my standards intellectually out there without having some kind of emotional issue to them. How should I deal with this problem? I don't mind being alone for the rest of my life, but I will probably get a girlfriend at some point for my mom's sake to at least give her the illusion that I might give her grandchildren.
Become more sensitive to emotions, perhaps? Humans, especially women, feel feelings. It blows, but sometimes, you need to deal with it. Or find a woman who is a sociopath.
Emotions are for fucking pussies. Fuck that bullshit. I would love to find a sociopath though, or at least someone who doesn't pretend to be emotional. Didn't really look for advice from a vagina owner on this though...
Yea. My boyfriend is more emotional than me, I think. I apologize for having a vagina. But not really. Cause it's an awesome vagina, and it gives out fine advice.
Well there's emotional and there's overly-emotional. It can be a fine line. There are definitely women who fit into the former category, but there are also a lot in the latter, as you have observed. I wouldn't make it strictly a sex issue either: there are a lot of overly-emotional men too. But I can relate; there are a lot of retarded people out there.
Try cutting the attitude. If you're honest with yourself, you'll find that no one (men or women or YOU) meets your standards. (I say this without knowing what those standards are. Its a common feature of most "standards".) Instead of searching for someone who meets your standards, practice appreciating people for who they are, complete with all their limitations, quirks and definciancies. Standards are an ideals. Don't expect reality to match ideals, ideals are a goal that can't nessesarily be met. Look at reality as it is rather than as it suceeds or fails at meeting your expectations or desires.
Damn, that's some horrible advice. Standards are there for a reason... what you're basically telling me is to settle on someone average. Fuck accepting people for the shit that they are. I want someone who isn't shit, or at least doesn't constantly smell like shit if you get the shitty metaphor. All in all, I am very realistic with my expectations... but there is no way in hell I'll deal with some nagging bitch just because I tried to accept her for who she is.
Hopefully we'll get a way to clone ourselves so that you can marry yourself one day. Do you find yourself hot? Because if so, keep on eye out on cloning research!!! But until then, search for possible cons being conducted. Find out who they are. If they are hot ladies, send them an inquiring message. ... check your spam emails, or pay attention to one of those scamming phone calls and flirt with any that sound hot; it'll be a match made in hell. GOOD LUCK, an emotionally dead sociopath to not love you is just a phone call away!
Nah, I'm not really looking for a relationship, even with the blow-up doll, for the sexual aspect of it. If only!
Standards and priciples are great for judging and molding your own behaviour. They are lousy for judging others. Some one one said, Don't complain about the speck in someone else's eye when you've got a stick in your own. Also, about the claim that those expecations are "realistic", is having those expectations really working out for you? If so, why this thread?
