It seems most men I interact with sexually (both online and in person) seem to relish saying 'panties' yet I don't find it remotely sexy but rather sleazy and not good sleazy either. Here in the UK we call them knickers but for some reason British men have taken to saying 'panties' and it instantly makes me want to sew up my holes and run for the hills. I love dirty talk but 'panties' makes me lose any kind of excitement I had. Do you have any words which are the same for you?
My ex would get grossed out by the word "moist." She couldn't stand it lol The words "I think I'm pregnant" is a pretty big turn off for me.
'good girl' - very patronising. Not really a word that would be said to me. Not really on-topic, either. Just sayin'.