Worst Part of Breaking up?

So, what would you say is the worst part of breaking up for yall?

(P.S. That option in #5 is refering to the whole "dating thing"... not getting back with your ex)

 

Having his friends thinking he dumped me.. Ugh, as if!





Haha just kidding ... I chose number 2.. That and well, having a broken heart..

 

Same here. I was going to choose the "mourning period", but my "mourning period" is always longer than just few days...so I decided against it.

I guess, for me, having a broken heart is the worst part.

 

Worste part of breaking up is all the CDs, t-shirts, ect. that I will never see again. ::shakes fist in anger::

Also the broken heart thing is a bummer I guess.

 

When you miss the other persons company.

 

when they find someone before you. i voted for this because you start to see how lucky you were. you only appreciate something when its gone.

 

That whole part where you don't go out with eachother sucks pretty fucking bad.

 

The hardest part of breaking up is getting back your stuff.

 

i chose option 1 because, well had a couple "ugly" breakups.. and,,2 of the best relationships i ever had endd suddenly, without the slightest warning, 1 minute they'd b saying how perfect it was, & the next minute it would be over..& that momment of shock is the worse.. however it can drag on imnto some of the other options as well.

 

for me it was always at the moment I realized it was over.
but now I'm married so I don't have to worry about shit like that, thank God!!!

 

Ahh, It's been so long I don't even remember. I'd say a toss up between the mourning period and the finding someone else first thing. Although my last few breakups weren't really that bad. The last serious one we didn't connect mentally/emotionally at all so it really wasn't too bad. The other recent ones weren't that serious so they weren't that hard to break off. I think the last breakup that was difficult was way back in January of 2001. We had only dated about 3 months and then she went to Spain for 6 months. That was pretty difficult because it was still in the fairytale stage.

 

your 20? AND MARRIED? wow.

 

i chose two....mostly because it is such an empty feeling. like ill have a dream about her, wake up, forget we're broken up and be all dissappointed when i realize i was wrong....such a horrible feeling

 

One you forgot to mention - that insatiable urge to kick the ass of the guy who she's been "hanging out with" lately. grr.

 

nummer zwei

 

I've never been dumped, and everytime I broke up with someone I did it b/c it was the only thing left to do and I was happy with my descision...so I don't know what to choose.

 

damnit, all of the above should be an option, i vote all of the above.

 

I put "The mourning period", even though it usually lasts longer than a couple of days for me...I"m just a whiney little emo kid though.

 

I think everyones answers depend a little on personal differences and a lot on past experiences. I think that seeing them with someone else is the hardest for me. I'm still hurting and here they are all happy like we didn't even mean anything to each other.

My situation primarily stems from dating a guy origionally from California that had just moved here. He didn't know anyone so I attempted to introduce him to my best friend and her boyfriend. Along for the ride was my best friends other friend. He really broke up with me to date her. Created a lot of tention for a while. I found out a month after the break up and it was like breaking up all over again, but so much worse.

 

well I've had a few bad break-ups and a few good...

the thing id even if I love a person and they then dumb me harsh and brutal, my mourning period is none... The throwing lines at eachother, well if I have anything to talk to them about I stay, if not well then I just walk away and let them bark up a wall... So no feeling what so ever

If it's a good break up, we get to talk stuff over untill we both realised it was for the best, and both believed it... And I'm still very close to 2 of my exes (you know what I mean)


So either way, I've never mourned a break-up.... It's not that I can't have a broken heart, I'm not Iron Man