Worst two days of my life... :(

So wednesday afternoon i started spotting.I called my midwife and she told me not to worry that everything sounded good. So about 4 hours later i started bleeding more, i called several emergency rooms here in town and they all told me not to worry. by 4 am on thursday morning i was bleeding ALOT. i finally talked an emergency room into seeing me. the doctor there had the nerve to ask me why i didnt come in sooner ...figuresAnyways so i went to the er and they did a pelvic exam and 3 ultrasounds and told me they couldnt see anything. so they did a blood draw to check my hcG levels and then asked how far along i was..i told them i was about 7 weeks pregnant, and they said my hormone level would have made me only 1-2 weeks pregnant and that i was having an inevitable miscarriage ... so they discharged me at about 9 am yesterday morning and i passed everything at about 6 pm last night.the worst thing ive ever had to do was let it go...my hubby refused to let me take care of it and he did it for me and i could see him sobbing as he did it....i hope i never have to go through anything this horrible ever again

 

*hugs* I wish I could offer more, but words are meaningless.

Peace for you and your hubby, sister.

 

sooooo much love to you mama. i have had two miscarriages and it's something i would never wish on anyone and am so sorry you are having to go through this : ( if you need to talk please feel free to pm me. you are in my thoughts and prayers.



hugs

jami

 

I am so sorry for you. Hugs to you and your hubby.
H

 

(((( Big hugs)))) I'm so very sorry sistah. I as well miscarried and it was 1 of the hardest moments of my life, much love to you and your family during this difficult time.

 

I'm so sorry sweetheart. I've myself had two miscarriages and they were one of the hardest things I'd ever gone through as well. Much love and healing to you.

{{{Many hugs and love}}}

 

My condolences... I'm so sorry that you've had to go through something so painful. You were a great mother to your baby while it was with you, and that soul will continue it's journey knowing it was loved deeply. *many hugs*

 

oh sweetie, I'm so sorry *big hugs*

 

I am soo sorry my thoughts are with you.

 

There's always hope. My mother miscarried just 5 months before getting pregnant with me.
I'm sorry for your loss.

 

So sorry for your loss.
*hugs*

 

There really isn't anything anyone can say except I'm sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

Kathi

 

Dear I'm very sorry for your loss. <hugs> I can not even imagine what you and your hubby are going through. I'm sending you healing vibes.

I know you REALLY want a baby, but do not try to get preggers again for a year because if you get preggers right after a miscarry, then the chances of your baby being born with a disorder is high. Talk to a doctor about this.

 

I'm so sorry.

 

Oh, hon, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your hubby.

 

great..my husband is already almost thirty...talk about really being depressed.....

 

Would you elaborate? I have not heard this and I am a student midwife, so my interest is very piqued.

 

Also SweetDreadLover I'm very sad to hear this My thoughts are with you.

 

yeah i checked with my doctor he said its bunk...he said at 2 months after the body is healed enough to carry another child

 

Hmmm, where did you hear something like this? My OB advised me to wait three cycles after my second miscarriage, and I had no problems whatsoever, conceived right away with twins even, and they were healthy as could be. I know of many, many women who have conceived way less than a year after miscarrying and didn't have any problems at all.