would you be attracted to a guy/girl with a disability?????

this is question is one i come up against every day being that i myself do have a disability.. if you met a person that had a limp or was in a wheel chair would you look past that or would you just give it a once over and not persue that person?

 

I once actually saw this really really cute guy in a wheelchair at a resturant and my mom who is a loud mouth runs over to him to get me to talk to him and he was so sweet! and I would have gone out with him, but I just started dating someone so the timing was off.

 

LOLOLOL Well I laugh at this because I havea story ...


I worked as a home care nurse. My new patient was 20something and paralyzed from the nipples down. From a skiing accident...

Anyhoo...We fucked for over a year...

I totally rocked him in his wheelchair and work took on a new meaning.

I have recently moved back into the same town as him. My marriage is on the rocks and I haven't had sex in 19 months...Im scared to call him but thinkihng maybe I should.

Best sex Ive ever had!

 

I once dated a woman who had a limp. I also once dated a gal who stuttered.


I was attracted to both women because they had big tits.

So, does that make me shallow because I liked their tits, or not shallow because I could overlook their disabilities?

 

even if rosalyn sanchez was hypoglysemic and insomniac and nymphomaniac ......id still be her boyfriend

 

i love ethical questions like these... i have been attracted to girls with disabilities but like most girls im attracted to nothing arises out of it

 

Some people seem to have an innate need to take care of people. I, unfortunately, have never been very nurturing. Well, that's not entirely true.

 

lol YellowBelly you're a bad woman!
You shouldn't go cheating husband because of problems though, surely you'd regret it later when he found out and you split up because of it. Shouldn't you talk to someone about it together first maybe..a counsellor or some-such?

My answer to this question is yes I have been attracted to someone with a disability but haven't known them well enough to do anything about it, nor does anything happen too often, just like dangermoose said.
A wheelchair-bound woman, I wouldn't say it couldn't happen, I haven't met that many though so i'm not sure. Who knows?... It's enough trouble to take care of yourself though sometimes and I have no disabilities, so it might be a little naive to think that love or attraction conquers any and all obstacles.

 

good question...I have a disability, I don't see it as one but i was born with one hand...my left hand never fully developed I had no bones in my fingers(they looked like mini peanuts with tiny fingernails...haha) but I still got dates...and eventually married

 

i'm in a wheelchair myself & never seem to have much trouble finding girls who are interested..but that doesnt always mean a nything ever comes out of it..
alot of the time tho thats my fault cause i'm not interested in them..or whatever
or the ones i am interested inn are too far away
its never hard to find somebody..but it sure is hard to find the right someone

 

very true

 

My mom is disabled and that's the reason my parents are divorced. My dad said that if he knew she would have gotten so badly sick he wouldn't have married her in the first place. He couldn't have a limping wife, it would surely ruin his career. He is an asshole!

 

Of course i would...have done...and may do again...

I don't seem to need "perfect physical ability" as a preffered prerequisite for falling for someone .....

 

Like they always say, it's what is inside that counts.

 

i used to love someone who was in a wheelchair..
he turned out to be an ass though

but to answer your question.. yes, i'd give the person a chance. i don't care about looks, it's all about what's inside

 

same with me and Lisa / Sara / Canadian Hippy Chick !!

 

Yes, I would date someone with a disability...




and besides any one can end up with a disability, its not something you are born with...

 

exactly.....i doubt i'd fall out of love with someone if they injured a limb etc....love don't seem to work like that....

 

....naughty

I feel ya babe...my marriage has been on the rocks for awhile now...but I made a very bad mistake and cheated on him and altho I had my reasons there aren't really any good reasons to cheat...we should just leave them and move in together...then we could be wild hippie mommas who have great kids and sweet times

 

Ya. I know.... And I won't really cheat. But sometimes I feel like I should be allowed to when he won't have sex with me!