would you be attracted to a guy/girl with a disability?????

unfortunatly i was born with mine.. i have Cerebral Palsy... it was a pain in the ass as a kid but now that im 20 i learned to live with it and anyone who wants to give me a hard time about it can go fuck themselves.. but really im a nice guy.. most people are nice enough to ask whats wrong rather then point and all of that crap.. which is cool with me

 

i hope you don't mind me asking.. but what's Cerebral Palsy?

 

people are ignorant...

I remember when i was in hs...the first graders came to watch a play in our thearter at school.. and there was a little boy that had no arms or legs and was in a motorized chair and this fucking dipshit kid next to me made fun of him.. I was soooo full of rage that I threw my book at his face (of course got in big trouble) and was disgusted that someone would even do that..
People just amaze me with how ignorant and stupid they are...
Especially grown adults.. The daycare I worked at there was a kid who was burned and her face was scarred and some of the parents would say things, and I was just heartbroken...some people are just shit imo...

 

yes. i've been attracted to all sorts, and pretty and perfect doesn't usually catch my eye for long. (had an older brother with that pretty/perfect infection. he and his crew were nightmares.)

 

sometimes I just wanna rape you...oo did I just say that :X

 

I dont mind at all i actually like it when people ask me this question... Cerebral Palsy is a disability where the signals in the brain dont get to the mucles the right way.. this happend because i was born too premature.. 2 months and 3 weeks early... and my brain didnt get enough oxgen to it... it causes my legs to have spasms and the mucles get tight.. now i have to walk with an arm crutch.. its tough but i try to not let it get to me

 

I could see myself being attracted to a female with a disability depending on the severity of the disability. If she was severly paralyzed (i.e. quadriplegic, etc.) this likely would be an issue, though. If she was paraplegic or was missing a leg, that would put some activities that I really like to do out of the question, like dancing. Things like limps are not a big deal with me.

Well, that's obvious.

 

i fell in love as i saw the sweetest guy on tv, his eyes seemed so familiar (you know that look that makes you think, i could marry him! ) He had something wrong with his legs. But i'm already in a fantastic relationship and as i'm working in fashion and i'm always surrounded by stylists and models and designers and so on i think my world wouldn't be ok for him (i mean i'm sure he wouldn't want to be part of all that)

but... i did write down his name...*blushes*

 

it doesn't bother me one bit

 

A disabled person is still a person, so why not?

 

That is sooo hot!

 

i haven't ever found myself attracted to someone with a disabilty. at least not an obvious one, i guess. but i think thats probably because i havent been around that many people in wheel chairs or what have you. I think it'd be a definate possibility, but who knows? I'm not really the kind of person who cares all that much about looks anyway, so i say sure, why not?

 

ROFL

 

One of my really good friends (though we don't really have a way to keep in touch anymore...) got into a bad car accident last New Year's Eve and ended up being paralyzed from the chest down. Right before that happened, he had moved to Ohio and fell in love with a girl at his school. She stuck by his side through all of the surgeries and complications and rehab. They are now engaged to be married. I think that's the sweetest thing in the world.

And yes, if I wasn't madly in love with the man I plan to marry, I could see myself being attracted to someone with a disability. After all, I was crazy about a guy who had cancer (and was also a speed addict...oddly enough), I don't see why being attracted to someone with a disability would be any different (and it would probably be a whole lot healthier).

 

LOL, that's hilarious. What a great story.

I've always wondered if paralysis makes men unable to have sex or get aroused . . . I guess I know the answer now.

Crimson, you're an awesome guy, buddy. People like you inspire me.

 

Thank you Americanwanderer.. im really supprised how much response this thread has gotten.. i really appriciate it

 

Firstly, yes I would/could/have been attracted to a person with a disability.

But..

I met a girl a while ago in a wheelchair. She is very sexy, smiles a lot and I wanted to get to know her better. The problem was I didn't know how to approach her. I always thought that I might come across patronising, or feeling sorry for her, or something like that. So I was worried about how I might make her feel.

It's like when you see someone in a wheelchair approaching a door, do you open it for them, or do you let them do it themselves? I've had one guy shout at me for holding a door, he thought I'd only done it because he was in a chair and he was capable of doing it himself. I hold the door for everyone but hey!

I do treat people the same, disability or not, but I now have this fear that the person with the disability might not see that (like the guy in the door). Or do you think that it was just this one guy?

 

oh mama i totally feel ya...i'm too embarassed to tell you have long i havent had sex for. my bf wont even like touch me anymore, and we'ce been together for 3 years. sometimes i get tempted to hook up with someone else, but then i feel guilty even considering it

 

I wouldn't have any problem..
Although, his weiner has to work. I'm sorry, but I've been practicing celibacy for almost six years & I'm really looking forward to ridin' like a true cowgirl again.

 

I think I would be, if I met somebody and she really captured my heart and soul. It's hard for me to say though at the same time, since I haven't spent much time around people with the so-called "disability".

So I guess I'll have to see where my future will take me...