wow....my mother just caught me

umm...I was getting laid by the most gorgeous girl in my lockless room like two minutes ago. Mother knocks, I tell her not to open in haste. She gets angry and FREAKS out . she said "if you want to be in the descriminated caste of society its your problem, but i will not tolerate your promescuity in this household." AND SHE FREAKS OUT. yelling crying... I'm sure i wont be getting an allowance anymore. I'm such a free loader. but thats besides the point... she's quite pissed. I'm a bit distraught. I dont know...she said something about kicking me out. its a scary thought that one. what a fucking bitch. It scared my lover right out the door. Now i'm all sad .... she was my friend you know..not just a lover. I'm mega turned on still damnit ! *sighs* life sucks. I was depressed all day today too. I wore all black to mourn the death of my old self, and here i am .... in this darkness , music playing. help. i need comforting words. i have no one to talk to about this.

 

Would it really be much better if she came in and saw you fucking a guy?

 

Well, being kicked out is not too bad since you'll be moving to university's residence soon enough and there you can do pretty much anything you want when it comes to sexuality.

Anyway, it must really suck to have such intolerant parents...

 

i sorry

 

give her time to think..its possible shes just reacting to the shock of seeing it herself..its very possible..if shes at all a good mother that she'll realize hoew hurtful those words were.. but just her choice of words makes me thingk shes pretty close minded..if you want to talk..just pm me.. i'm so sorry to hear about this..if theres anything i can do to help..let me know

 

I am sorry you have to deal with this. Don't ever give in to being who you're not just to satisfy others. We love you just the way you are and so does your Mum, she just doesn't know it.

 

Ditto; yer mom caught ya havin sex. If i were a parent 'n I caught my kid having sex, I'd flip out too.

 

But she's 18.... Hardly a child, bless.

 

Shit, nigga, when yer a parent, yer offspring's always gonna be a child to ya, an yer gonna wanna protect 'n shelter that child 'n keep it innocent and naive about the world.

 

That's a point. But I know I'll be more like my 'rents with my future kid - make sure they know bout protection and make sure I'm there to talk to as kids these days just do what they want and I'd rather mine knew I'd care for them an make them safe as I could.

 

OUCH! That bites!

Your mother freaked out, and people who freak out have been known to recover.

In the meantime, be calm. You were doing nothing wrong. It may not be a bad idea to look into an escape plan if things continue to be rough.

 

Wow...

 

what a shitty predicament you're in. embarrassing AND offensive.

my mum called me in the middle of sex once but hasn't actually walked in... yet lol

she'll calm down mate. talk to her about it later once she's had time to think.

 

sorry to hear your mother reacted the way she did

i always tell my daughters that i don`t mind who ever they choose to be with as long as they are happy and the one which there with makes them happy
so boy,girl,purple or what ever,i don`t mind
i`d rather they have sex in my house then somewhere out on the street
but he...that`s what i think
pm me if you wanna talk..i`m here
good luck

 

Well, as I've always said, parents who pry will usually fry.

In other words, most snoopy parents WANT to discover something (even if they already know it) and then get all pissed off.

Yes, you should've locked the door, but then again, any respectable relationship between a parent and their daughter or son, should be acknowledged by knocking before entering and not barging in.

Some parents will tell you beforehand "as long as you live under my roof, you'll have no privacy", so if that is the case...well...that shit is bound to explode. Because people will be people and there's no changing it.

 

I was caught by my g/fs dad. All he said was when you put your cloths on we need to talk. He thought we were sick of being screwed around with by guys so we had turned to sexual pleasure from eachother b/c it was safe. My g/f amazed me when she told him that she like LIKED me, that she wanted to date me seriously. He was shocked, but all he said was, well than, I don't feel comfortable having the two of you sleeping in the same bed, so from now one you sleep in seperate rooms. I was only concerned that he would tell my parents. He never did. maybe he should have, if he had maybe his daughter and I would still be together...omigod I love and miss her so much

 

LOL that sucks. You definetly need a lock

 

thank the gods my mother never caught me when i was with my ex... yikes. we weren't even in my room. we were downstairs on the big futon. she knew we were dating, let us sleep in the same bed... but made us promise that we wouldn't do anything and just act as friends. just for safety's sake we crossed our fingers.. and about two hours later after my mother and younger sister had zonked upstairs, i lost my girl virginity- and general i suppose, seeing she was my first ever- and my mom didn't know- and still doesn't- to this day.