Yea so i ran away.

I ran away but im back now. I had alot of drama and my parents said if i run away again i go to juvi and get ass raped..great. Well, the reason i did this was because they basically locked me in my room and said i cant leave the house until i promise i wont smoke anything. Which isnt gonna happen. So i left out the window and dipped out to a friends house for a while. Then the cops found me and brought me home. And im here now. Im glad to be back but i need some advice on what to do with my parents. They dont trust me anymore and are very dissapointed.

 

honestly, the best thing to do is to obey them until you live in your own place/ turn 18. be good and quit smoking for a few years, you'll gain their trust and respect back gradually. orrr you could just smoke every now and again in a safer place were you parents can't catch you. don't smoke at home, it's way to risky!

 

I just didn't quit smoking, eventually they might get used to the idea. Or you could be curtious about it and never smoke in their presence or be high when you go home or smell of smoke and don't smoke within fifty feet of your home.

 

You just need to go about everything more carefully. If your parents let you burn incense, that will come in handy. If you want to smoke in your house, do it while they are gone, or wait till everyone is sound asleep. Also you should make a sploof to cover up the smell of the smoke you are exhaling. A sploof and incense have made sure I have never been caught in the act. The only time I got caught was when my Dad searched my bag before I went to my friends.

 

Ohh alright. Well i deff dont want to stop smoking. But if i tell my dad i quit and he catches me that will suck cause i would of lied to him.

 

Yeah that is true. Just cut down on smoking for right now, and try to earn some of their trust back. You need to find new places to smoke, new places to hide shit, and maybe even find some new stoner buddies if your parents know which friends of yours smoke.

 

How can you not get away with smoking? It is so ridiculously easy to get away with if you are even just a little careful. I've gotten caught by the parents once, but since then I've smoked a ton in all the wrong places without getting caught. Just don't be stupid and you're home free. Give your parents the whole, I've-changed-and-realized-how-stupid-smoking-is speech, give your mom a hug and your dad a handshake, and move on. As far as your parents are concerned, you kicked your habit so you can continue smoking in concealment until you are 18...

 

You just need to learn to be careful, and always have the tools available to cover up that you smoked.

 

same thing happened to me a few months ago...i was VERY stupid, and left my piece and bud in the center console of my car, my dad went out, and was working on my car and opened up the console, and found it just laying there. I stopped smoking for 2 months, gained their trust back, and have smoked everyday since, just being sure I am more careful, and dont put my bud in the most obvious spots ever.

 

^^^^ Smart . I like that. Also i think im going to move my room into the basement so i can smoke down there.

 

Smoke floats up.... You'd be better off smoking outside

 

Stop smoking, honestly is losing the trust and bond of your parents worth a few hours high?

 

But my parents turn on the alarm at night. So i have no way of smoking outside.

 

I don't know how many parents would take the time to look outside long enough to realize there is a small amount of smoke trailing up the side of the house. The basement idea sounds good. If you have a window on your room that isn't connected to an alarm, I would just dismantle it and leave. Or if you want to smoke in your room, a good way to not make your room smell is to shove your head out your window and smoke.

 

i got caught to man,buy a bowl so you dont have to roll anything. all i do now is sneak out side at night,you should find out what the password is.

 

I cant the code box is in the kitchen and my parents room. And when i type to code in it beeps and wakes up my parents.

 

Damn that sucks man, I moved to the basement and have smoked every day and night in it since! Good luck down below.

 

Thanks bro, its just gonna take a while to move because of all the stuff i have.

 

it sucks so much that you cant go out at night.

 

Hell yea. Except when i have friends sleep over cause we sleep in the basement and my mom turns off the motions alarm and widow alarms. So i sneak out every now and then.