Yet another Am I Gay thread

hi.
Ok, For a while now ive been starting to worry about my sexuality, if i might be going gay. My major concern is, when i see a guy with muscles or doing undie modleing i get sorta turned on. I'm not sure if this is a jealosy thing considering i am not particulary buff or sporty. Also if i did see another guys cock, i would probably get turned on as well. i find that really scary. guys enter my fantasies as well, not always butquite a bit, but not in a gay sex kinda way, just wanking off wich is probably just as bad. I try to not let that happen and supress it with straight sex, which usualy turns me on as well.
The other thing is i havent really had a girlfriend since prep-school, which is pretty sad. i still get turned on by chicks at school and stuff, but not as much. Its sort of more a- whoa shes hot, lets have sex thing, as aposed to - nice muscle, your hot, but no sex.
Ive never been turned on by gay sex, i dont like the idea, and ive never really felt comfortable around gays.
However, i really would like to spend my life with a chick, have a family and have sex with a woman, not to mention the fact that i could'nt do the whole gay thing to my family or self.
I wanto stress that i really dont want to be Gay, but if im heading in that direction is there anything i can do?
thanks for you time.

 

If you really do see yourself being gay or bisexual, do try to keep an open mind. Being gay doesn't mean following any stereotypes, hanging out with a "gay crowd" or any of that. If you prefer women emotionally and sexually but men turn you on too, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

As for me, I'm bi in the sense that I'm attracted to both sexes but I tend to get along better with guys (See the Kinsey scale, sexuality isn't all black and white: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale ) . I only got to that conclusion this year shortly after my best friend came out as bi, which was also quite unexpected. I'm not the kind of guy who goes out clubbing, I'm not flamboyant or macho, I'm not into bears/twinks/queens or any of that stuff. I just want to find a nice person I can relate to.

I guess it just goes to show that being open with your sexuality doesn't mean changing your life to be something your not. Find what best defines you and don't be afraid to go with it.

 

Just have a family with a girlfriend and get married, but have gay sex as a hobby. Like other guys go to watch football etc, you could go to the local gay meat market and get jizzed in the face and then you could jizz up someones ass and that would be it till next weekend. If your wife finds out you can just pull out "Gay Magazine" and tell her about your hobby and how you were once thinking of taking it up professionally but you realised you were no Julian Clarey, so you became a professional hetero and a hobbyist homo
She will totally understand as her liberalist hetero upbringing will accomodate your homo past-time although from then on she may insist you use your own toothbrush and bath towel incase she gets foreign jizz up her muff or in her mouth

 

If you're also attracted to girls and want to get married, being bisexual won't change your life. You'll never have to come out to anyone if you don't want to. Just try to accept the fact that you're also attracted to guys, it's not that big of a deal. It may take a while to accept, but after a while you'll be fine with it.
Also there's no such thing as "heading in that direction". You're born with your sexuality and it stays the same all your life. If you're bi, you might find yourself at some times more attracted to guys than girls, and vice versa, so it's inevitable you'll be confused, but just keep in mind that you're bi, always have been and always will be, and you don't have to worry about a thing.

 

sorry you are doomed to be gay, it's fun, don't worry