You're SEXY but... No thanks. Da fuck?

Bonjourni.

4th Month without sex and starting to go a bit cray-craaaay!!! Everytime a cock option comes near something seems to be blocking the fucking fun!

Guy from work, (A different one) when we were out drinking like 2 fridays ago told me he fancied me but won't hit it cos he's 25. Who actually gives a shit? He assumes people will find him strange for hitting it. And he said he doesn't want to seem like he's 'taking advantage' of me. Erm... *Insert eyebrow raise*

The problem is, why say that then deny me loving?? I fancied him a bit when I first started working there, but got distracted by some other douche. This one is genuinely a nice guy and I do think he's cute in his own way. He's different to the others, and we actually have sooo much in common. I'd always spoken to him as a mate and not felt concerned about the way I acted or looked around him. Now I know that he finds me "ridiculously hot" it's sent me paro and shy.

Other people (My friends) think he's unattractive, but I really don't and have never thought this. I haven't told anyone at work, but one female colleague mentioned at the Christmas Party that he said something along the lines of liking me but it was vague and everyone was drunk and it was all forgotten.

I dunno what I should do. I mean, the ball is in his court. I've left him to think. But whoa, when I see him, he acts all shy. He's lovely. He really is.

And I am sooo horny, this dry spell is driving me crazy. I'd love for him to wet the planes of the dessert after this drought- like, it wouldn't seem wasted, cos he's sooo awesome. :love:

 

what, is 25 supposed to be the year of celibacy in his religion or something?

 

What's the age difference? It could be possible he's attracted to you but he desires more than a fling, and he feels he'd get too attached to you if he goes any farther. I'm a guy and I've felt that before but in my case the girl in question decided she'd risk it and go for a relationship. (It didn't last long though but we did mutually part, and are on friendly terms now).

 

Desperate situations most often cause irrational action that can potentially lead to disaster.

 

Sorry, I forgot to put that I'm 19.
And I'm not desperate. Just a bit randy!

 

Go To The Nearest Supermarket And Buy Yourself A Jar Of Vaseline....

Problem Solved....



Cheers Glen.

 

Mmmmmmm maybe u need some dark suger lol. Ew forget him move on to the next and don't worry about this bull ish

 

Haha. That can only get me by to a certain extent.

I'm actually getting kind of fed up with the situation tbh...

 

lol!!!

 

I Made That Post Thinking You Were A Boi....

Ohhhhh GLEN, Your've Stuffed Up Again....



Cheers Glen.

 

I'm 25. And at 19 a chick would have to be pretty special for me to get involved. Are you.....special?

 

Yes...



Cheers Glen.

 

I don't think anyone has ever doubted that Glen

 

:\ i saw you on another post and you sounded like a female...now youre
a male??? WTF??

 

I don't see anything there that implied gender...

 

Wow. Okay...

Anymore advice pour moi? Is this a big age gap or not cos I don't think so!

 

Involved? Or just fucking?? :S Cos it's purely physical.

Well maybe...

 

OMG that aint even bad!!!!!! wtf???!!!!! its not like you're 9! i so think it is fine smh stupid boys think the girl will have to special??? honestly for real?? age aint nothing but a number once you hit 18 ahhahahaha so go for it...25 is acceptable, hell it's not like he's 60 and you bth want eachother, get laid!!! you deserve it hon

 

For you it may be. But he may be worried that he can't keep the two separate.

 

I just don't get why me being 19 is such a big deal. I can understand that there's attachment and whatnot, but it's actually like this guy is FIGHTING with himself not to leap onto me. Why is he denying himself a good time? He should just let it happen!

Before he told me this, he was very quiet around me and refused to speak to me. I dunno if he's a bit shy around the ladies. Now he makes an effort to talk to me because I asked him to. He's a guy, I might be able to persuade him to the city of bedrock, right??

Also, he used to think I was older than I was. He thought I was 21/22. He said he'd hit it if I were this age, but I don't see how 21 is a major leap from 19. I must seem mature or look older to him.