without regard to gender
bottom surgery and transition
pulsing beneath the fabric
I knew I was bi the first month that I started having sex with other people, which happened rather late for me at the age of 21. Within a two...
Those who have the will and the vocabulary to describe their inner world and those that don't.
There are several other things I like about open locker rooms and showers at the gym where I go. First, during the busiest times of the day, I...
And that's why some people choose to go to gyms that have individualized shower cubicles.
I see open gym showers as a great equalizer. It's an opportunity to shed your armor and openly admit you are just another human being engaging in...
By all accounts, I was born a nudist. Wasn't wearing anything, and totally unashamed. Still tend to be that way...
My best MM experiences have been with men who are not hung up on proving to themselves and others that they are straight. It is so much easier to...
Not wishful thinking in all cases. Integrated Pest Management specialists in my area can predict how quickly some field crop pests will get...
It is getting more uptight in the USA. But as the columnist Dan Savage once observed, "Canada got the French, Australia got the convicts, and we...
With the late frosts this year in southern Arizona, I have a few tomato vines that keep wanting to come back. But, I also have a leaf hopper...
Pruning the grape vines will start soon. The garden is resting in a silent state, except for the sounds of a few crows and dead leaves rustling...
Well, I think it's helpful to consider the definition of "romance". It has some roots in the medieval concepts of chivalry, and often has been...
To me, it's enough to find relationships with mutual respect and great sex. The whole romance thing is typically an idealized myth that is almost...
My garden is done for the year, also. Time to take all the dead plants to the compost pile and mix them with horse manure. The earliest...
Yes, I started out being mostly genital-focused with other men, but all along, I only wanted to sexually interact with men who seemed considerate...
Even if a straight guy is fascinated with his own cock, you could say he has a cock fetish. Those that extend this fetish to other men become (by...
I've been bi for my whole adult life, starting in my early 20s. But the thing that changed in my senior years is that I now want to have a bi...
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