As a pan sexual man, I've had about a dozen sensual encounters with men, and at least three of them were with exclusively gay men. In each...
I do not equate sex with long-term commitment. The two can go together, but they do not necessarily go together. Sex and physical intimacy takes...
My most rewarding relationships were not initiated on the internet. I've tried that approach, and it simply has not worked as well for me as...
I was lucky, because I discovered that I was non-binary early in life, even before I first started having sexual relations with others. Depending...
And I sure do enjoy my "gender-nonconforming" adventures. Discovering new aspects of feminine expression is like finding new veins of gold in an...
Full and lasting happiness is elusive, but pan-sexual and pan-gender men do the best we can, making little adjustments, and sometimes big...
I came of age and moved out on my own in 1967. Within a year I was deeply immersed in the hippie and music scene of California. By 1972, I was a...
I live in a remote part of the desert Southwest, and I depend upon a well insulated home I built and natural or fan-powered evaporative cooling...
I am a cisgender pan sexual man who does a lot of construction work. I also ended up in the feminine quadrant (88M and 108F). But it does not...
Yes, I have been hit on numerous times, and have responded both negatively and positively, depending on how it felt. Same for women, and people...
If you are just looking for a fast (and probably fleeting) hook-up, yeah, maybe the internet. But if you are looking to select for someone based...
Most men and women have no idea that it is possible to shift seamlessly along the spectrum of masculinity and femininity. Many of them even...
My starting point was when I was a 22-year-old virgin. I was seduced by an older man during a massage. After struggling with my homophobic...
The sexiest woman I've had as a lover was flat chested, but she had very responsive nipples that really got her motor running. The beauty of...
As a retired-but-still-laboring man living in a warm climate with intense sun radiation, I like to wear a skirt or dress, with nothing on...
Both of us were naked in an 88-degree pool as the sun was setting at the Valley View Hot Springs in Colorado. He looked over at me and said, "You...
Dresses and skirts and minimalistic underwear often feel more comfortable and appropriate to me, and I am certainly not a transgender female....
I think bisexuality changed my relationship with women is a subtler way than that. A lot of super-straight men are terrified of their own...
Generally, boys are conditioned to be fiercely heterosexual in all thoughts and actions from very early in their lives. This was especially so...
Glory holes provide a good outlet for horny men. Let's face it, most guys get horny and want some novel excitement. And, if you take the right...
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