One of my friends has a simple way of clearing it up. If it's wide enough for her jaw to get tired quickly, it's a wonderful width for her pussy but it won't be going in her ass. If it's long enough that she has a hard time getting it all the way in her mouth, that too is great for her pussy and maybe in her ass. If it's skinny and not too long, it'll be welcome in any of her holes but she may not be altogether happy unless you are skilled. She admits to liking larger over medium or smaller but it all depends on how she feels while you're wherever you are in her. She adores looking at cocks though so unzipping and getting them out is all it takes to get her wet.
I guess I’m average with a 6” dick but a bit thicker than most. Like most guys, I would love to have 8” or 9”. I’m a bit of an exhibitionist and the idea of displaying an impressive cock at the nude beach/club is very appealing. Too much porn makes people think a huge dick will give their partner mind blowing orgasms. But in the real world, it might not work that way. Perhaps my wife is built differently, but she has already said certain positions cause me to bounce off and hurt her cervix. I’m sure another couple inches wouldn’t help.
Same here, I’m not thick either. But my length gives me some respect with the women I play with. It doesn’t fall out during stroking. Mine also has a Jacob’s ladder piercing, so they are curious and intrigued by it.