Bi guys and their (guy) bosses/on the job "hookups"?

In such a "workplace" situation-as in others of a like nature-as horny and and as "hot and bothered" you get-I think it both wise and prudent to "think twice" and not let your testesterone influence your decision-------------and not be prone to worrying afterwards about the "fallout"-------

 

It is wise and prudent but being horny doesn't always care about that and you can never discount spontaneity and "shit" happening. It's one of those things that if you can take the shot, then you take it; otherwise, don't even think about it and arrange for something to happen when you're not at work. If you can do it and get away with it, well, that's some hot shit and even I won't lie and say that it isn't to be in the men's room and there's a guy on his knees and doing a masterful job of sucking my dick.

 

KDaddy23:I hear you-------too often-I would think-that the raw deep-seated urge to just "get it on" is far too powerful to ignore--------------

 

It can be and what happens in the men's room stays in the men's room. Sometimes, there's some good-natured flirting and I'd say it's okay but if it's going to lead to sex, let's not do it here in the office and the rule is when we're in the office, we do not ever let on that we had carnal knowledge of each other. What makes this whole thing a problem is that once they have sex, everything changes; they fail to maintain discretion and one of them inevitably tells someone else in the office that sex happened or someone figures it out and the whole thing becomes a problem.

It all depends on where you work; how workspaces are laid out, all sorts of variables that if you're paying attention to them, you'd know if you could get away with having sex at work or not and if you know that you can't, you just do not try to and no matter how great the urge and temptation may be... if you like being employed.

 

Agreed--------once sex happens between two guys at the workplace----well----there certainly is NO looking back; and----as "forbidden fruit" often tastes the sweetest-----the urge is always going to be there------hoping for an "encore"-if you will; again-here indeed is where both discretion and lust are girded for battle-----and-----will discretion win out? Or will it be just the raw lust?-----------

 

I don't know; that would depend on how good the dick was and what I thought about his level of desire when sucking my dick. In my case, both were one and done, which was fine with me and a guy who is more about the sex with men than wanting/needing to be romantically involved. Been there; done that; move on.

The urge shouldn't be allowed to make you stupid; any encores should be anywhere other than where you work. Still, there's something to be said about the kind of spontaneity that can happen in the men's room... and that's why the stall doors have locks on them and built so you can peek in the seams to see if the throne is occupied and, sure, sometimes, you might peek and see more than what you expected to see.

Discretion, ultimately, should win out and make you take the sex offsite. Then again, you're working the night shift, it's boring as fuck and since you're one of only three or four people there - and you know where they are and what they're supposed to be doing, you pull your dick out and start stroking it - and it's not like you haven't done this at work before - only this time, you hear a male co-worker's voice asking, "Yo, can I help you with that?"

What do you do? Decline? Rush to finish trying to stuff your boner back in your pants; cite the bullshit that you don't shit where you eat? Or do you get your dick sucked? And if you do, does it have to mean anything other than you got sucked off at work when you were horny and a male coworker was horny and saw what you were doing and he decided it was worth the risk to ask you if he could help, let alone where the two of you are.

My final question is... do you have a sense of adventure? You comfortable with sex and your sexuality? Believe that fortune favors the bold? Or are you, well, a prude and one who believes that sex has to be and mean more than exactly what it is? If you're walking by and see your male co-worker stroking his cock - and you know that you like to suck dick, do you offer to blow him... or keep walking like you didn't see what you saw?

I know what I would do even if only to take a break from the tedious boredom working the night shift... but if the conditions weren't right, then nothing happens... until lunch break and we can leave the workplace and if you can't wait that long, oh, well.

There are some things you just do not do: You don't stick a metal nail file in an electrical outlet, and you don't play with fire and, oh, yeah, you don't have sex with someone you work with and in the workplace. One of them is only fucked up if you get caught.

 

KDaddy: Another excellent "in depth" post----one with a great deal of "food for thought" if you will; yet again-what you are relating to can be often-indeed- quite "touchy" (pardon the pun!)------a LOT of PROS and CONS for sure; here again-all you can do is to go with your "gut feeling" and take it accordingly; I guess it all boils down to in the end is just how horny you are and what risk(s) are you willing to take-------

 

Absolutely.

 

Personally-I think that "gut feelings" are all too often ignored-these "feelings"-I strongly feel-should NOT be discounted and NOT to be taken lightly------these feelings could indeed be telling you to "take it easy" and just not plunge headlong into a workplace "encounter" that you could later regret------------

 

If your instincts tell you to not do it, you listen to them because they're right. If you're going to do it, you should do it with the understanding that it could all go sideways and become as problematic as everyone says it is and then make double damned sure that you're not going to be the one to fuck it all up. And if you have reason to think or believe that you might regret doing it, then fucking don't do it - but I've seen where a lot of guys don't seem to think like this.

It might be okay to fantasize about having sex with your boss or being in some out of the way place where you work and having sex with someone but the reality can be disastrous if you let your horniness make you careless. I wouldn't dream of having sex with someone who could potentially get miffed with me over sex and dismiss me from my job...

 

Excellent post----and you again brought up points that should be well taken seriously; NO "on the job" sex is worth it IF it leads to you losing your job----NO SEX can be that hot; you are so right-----"on the job" fantasies are QUITE hot----BUT----"fantasy" is-in truth- NOT reality------in fantasies we can do what we wish sexually with other consenting guys with no backlash or fallout----in the "real world"-though-it is wise to think twice about what you COULD lose-by indulging in "forbidden escapades" on the job----------

 

One should always think first, then act if they must... or if they can. Honestly, I wasn't going to feel bad about the guy who asked if I minded - and started blowing me. He was good and it felt good even when I was thinking, "If someone walks in right now..." and it's like I cared and I didn't but too late to say no and in for a penny, in for a pound - and the stall doors all locked, so...

We both got away with it. Nothing more came of it - no pun intended. No one was the wiser. Had been in the men's room with men showing me their cocks as they pissed and the hint was clear but, nah, as much as I'd love to indulge, I'm not doing it here again... but if you wanna meet somewhere for lunch...

 

KDaddy-----I agree with you 100%-----WHY risk the loss of your job when you could just as easily "hook up" after hours? Again-as I had stated earlier in this topic------there is a HUGE gap between FANTASY and REALITY--------------------

 

Why? For the thrill of it. One of the things me and my "band of horny brothers" would talk about was how bad it would be if we got caught, which would make you think that we wouldn't have sex and take the risk... and you'd be wrong: It made the sex even more exciting. I'd have a friend deep in my butt and humping me nicely and we're talking about, "Man, I hope we don't get caught!" or "What if somebody sees us?" Just the thought of that happening made him screwing me... delicious.

Grown men are just really big boys, huh? It's illogical and defies common sense but it remains true that you can't get in trouble for it if you don't get caught...

 

KDaddy23: "BIG boys with BIG toys"? NOT getting caught (and engaging in HOT guy/guy sex) at work would-indeed be key to "getting your cake and eating it too!" As I had said earlier: they say that "forbidden fruit tastes the sweetest"; this would certainly ring true regarding your opinions on workplace "action"------------

 

I worked in a white collar workplace for nearly 25 years-surrounded (literally) by hundreds of HOT older guys (including guys who were this fellow's bosses); to say I fantasized about enjoying HOT "white collar" fun with these guys is to put it bluntly!----Of course-being that these guys were all straight (AFAIK) with spouses-----I was not looking to get into a situation which could jeopardize the job; I just "played safe" and and fantasized a LOT! (then again-for personal reasons------I was celibate then (as now)-and did not wish to get into a situation where I could get hurt I will say this-----there were a LOT of juicy-looking butts that REALLY got this guy going! (too-----I always had a HUGE fetish for older guys in suits!) But----I guess it all has to do with how "risky" the situation is------perhaps better to enjoy a hot encounter AFTER work hours off the job site---------------

 

Papa: Don't get this guy wrong; I also find QUITE a few blue collar guys REALLY hot (and yes-I DO DO fantasize about "blue collar" action as well!) This fellow's late best bud (A HUGE Italian guy) always wore flannel shirts in the winter and hot-looking boots; this big guy was HOT regardless of WHAT he wore (and-yes-to this day-I still get into pretty hot thoughts about this hulking fellow-----he was HOT! Sure wish that at least ONE guy that you see at work would look at you and say; "Hey-this old dude looks like he could be a lot of fun to know!" (you know as well as I that a LOT of younger guys are really into "daddies"); hell-though this gray guy is now going on 67 (horrors!)-I STILL find older guys a BIG turn-on!

 

Papa: What COULD transpire in 2024 could indeed be QUITE rewarding for you good friend; you just cannot tell just WHEN another guy could think you worthy of a second (or perhaps a third!) glance and think: "Hey-I think I'd like to get to know this guy better!"------sure hope it DOES happen for you in the New Year!