cuckolding....

I think most guys have the same fantasy. I can't say it was really my fantasy, but I was curious as to how she would react.

 

The only problem would be jealousy or possibly fear that a guy would lose his woman to some other guy who rocked her world.

Curiosity is a much nicer feeling to have

 

Might have been a bit jealous, but she had watched me with other women, but we had a secure relationship. The other man was more of a player, made it clear it was sex only. And it was obvious he rocked her world.

 

I know I have posted on this topic before. But a few thoughts…. I don’t consider cuckolding BDSM. Maybe that’s just me…. Maybe I was not humiliated enough. Honestly, no disrespect to @jimandjan but I do not think that “Most“ guys/couples that we are friends with have that “fantasy”. Maybe they’re just good at hiding it. I sure kept it close to the vest With both my ex-wife and current wife. Two completely different ways of life/Lifestyles. With my ex-wife, what we considered BDSM was between us. Some light bondage and a little pain on my part…. but hell, it was fun. we eventually decided to try the “hot wife” adventure. Eventually found a single guy at the gym, and they would hook up a half a dozen times a month for six months. I would be waiting at home, or on the road, in aroused angst, knowing she was getting railed. it worked well for a while, until she started falling for him. so we put an end to it. Why can’t some women differentiate the difference between sex and love? Why does a big new cock (yeah she told me he was bigger), just something different from the comfortable suburban housewife environment?
With my current wife of over a quarter century, she had the fantasy of two men… and so did I! we had a few MFMs with the same close friend, and they were all fantastic… then HE started falling for her. She knew it and fortunately/unfortunately put it into it. During said MFMs my emotions were all over the place…. aroused, jealous, turned on, insecure. His package was about the same size as mine, but his stamina and energy, topped mine. is that considered BDSM?
I don’t know, but it was sure fun while it lasted. All these years later, I wish we were still doing them with our friend, and may be fine another man or two to join us.

 

isn’t it better to scratch that itch? Like they say, curiosity, killed the cat, but satisfaction brought him back!

 

I scratch that itch every chance I get!

 

It was probably a mistake for me to post anything here because I/we never cuckold anyone in any way. Just fyi for anyone finding me here.

 

Much the same never heard the word cuck, and well endowed men invited to the get togethers were not referred to as bulls.

 

My turn inside would be: being in a chastity cage, tied up if she wanted, to be required to lick and suck him & her and clean up cum from his cock & her fussy & to suck his cock until hard so he could go again and to be required to lick them as he fucks her....and to be pegged by her..or by him with his cock...ideally he has a 7" to 9", thick, uncut cock, and unloads a lot of cum each time.

 

I love being the cuck in our marriage. I love to see her with another man and love to clean both of them, cum so much better when its mixed together.

 

My turn on is cleaning up

 

Watching her fuck other men, seeing how lost in the moment she gets, the pure lust in her eyes, the moaning and screaming - it is a privelege to be in that moment with her!

Knowing that she is receiving pleasure from whomever she chooses while I am caged in the corner makes me horny, that is just how I am wired.

And then, cleaning up their mess as they watch is both erotic and humiliating... which feels amazing!

 

While I was never caged in the corner there were a few times that my wife wanted me to watch, naked, at the side of the bed. Pangs of jealousy surging through me. He rocked her world, I did as well it was just what we were doing that night.

And then of course, clean up and preparing for round two where I joined in fully.

 

I'm not a screamer but both of us love to watch the other being pleasured. More often than not it's me getting fucked and having one orgasm after another, but I get to watch him fuck other girls several times a year. I often join in eventually but not always, sometimes I just love to watch him having his lustful pleasures too.

I make eye contact with my baby as often as I can, in part because I love that look on his face when he's watching me, but even more importantly to remind him that he's my man and he will always be the one that I go home with. If you know that she loves you then maybe it would help a lot to keep that in mind, no matter what you see and hear.

It's kind of like me enjoying a game of volleyball in a girls only game He doesn't get to play (though he loves playing vball as much as me) but it pleases him to watch me have fun. And I love that he's there watching me play. Having another guy's dick inside me is a whole other world, but for us it's still the same kind of thing.

I know that my comments aren't really in the spirit of cuckolding, I'm just trying to say that it can possibly work even for guys who can't help getting a little jealous.

 

Actually you are in the spirit with your comments. The biggest part of a cuckold and cuckqueen relationship is the compersion factor. Compersion is the feeling of joy and happiness when their partner is enjoying another person. That includes having a beer, lunch, a dance, sex, or even that volleyball game. So one partner who is having sex with another person while married makes the other partner a cuck. This is how the term cuckold has evolved over time as the original meaning was a cuckold is a unknowing parent over children who he didn't sire.

 

Thank you for all of that! I love learning word origins, it can be fascinating. And I understand this subject better now as well.

 

Interesting to understand, but does not apply to my lifestyle.

 

Yes I find it interesting how words and phrases morph over time into something completely different from the original meaning.

I may have touched on defining your lifestyle in another thread. But the men you have sex with may have made their spouse . . . . No wait . . . did make their spouse a cuckqueen in a sense. Some were married weren't they?

 

Yes, I suppose you are right and at some parties the spouse or spouses were watching. I wasn’t thinking it from that direction.