Discovering cruising

I’ve always wanted to get sucked off at a glory hole. Just hadn’t had the nerve to go through with it

 

i try to get a middle booth, then i have dicks coming through holes on three sides and move from one to the next

 

3 sides!? Interesting

 

Too bad CL isn’t around anymore. Meet a few guys in the lobby after they would respond to my ad. Then it was off to their rooms for a good time.

 

I found myself in a unconventional porn theatre in 1993 Toronto, where I learned that the third floor had gay porn playing (I think there was straight and lesbian on the other two floors).

It was I believe a few months after I discovered all of a sudden that I had gay feelings, while I was in my last month of a solo 5 month road trip around Canada and the United States. It was the best masturbatory sessions of my life every night after that, jerking off to gay porn magazines in my motel rooms, and finally driving straight to San Francisco and the gay Castro district. But the closest I got to fulfilling my gay fantasies there was having the most gorgeous of all cocks an inch from my face in a gay strip show, during the greatest minute of my life up to that point!

Anyway, back in Toronto, I decided to check this third floor out. The room was maybe 800 ft.² and benches lined three of the walls, while the screen was on the fourth wall. There were maybe a dozen people in there, all guys, except one male/female couple. Everyone was sitting on the benches, with some masturbating while watching the hot action on the screen, and some guys were even having oral sex! And the male/female couple were fucking, not 30 feet from where I settled. But my eyes were on all the guys' cocks that were out, and the extraordinary real life cocksucking. It was wild--from my newbie point of view. It was so awesome because with this layout you could watch all the patrons as much as you could watch the porn movie, unlike a traditional theatre.

At one point a guy came in and sat a little closer to me. He eventually scooched over to right beside me, and we ended up stroking each other's cocks. That was my first time touching an adult cock. I was 30. About a half hour into our mutual stroking, he wanted me to follow him to his place nearby, and I got up and started following him, but then I chickened out. I've always regretted that. Even though I was so super excited about everything that was happening, it was all just too new for me. I was still trying to figure out my feelings. But I discovered my first cruising place!

Not long after I found my next one, a video arcade with porn booths with gloryholes. I finally sucked my first adult cock. I've never been so excited, and scared, at the same time, with a beautiful man cock right there in front of me, through that gloryhole (which before this night I never even knew existed in this world), waiting to be sucked. I approached it with my hands, touching it, holding it, and stroking it, and then finally with my lips, planting kisses on it, some little licks, and then eventually opening my mouth and wrapping it around this extraordinary object of my gay fantasies. I hadn't yet been back to the porn theatre because of my bit of a freak out there at the reality of having sex with another guy, but this gloryhole, cock-only situation was a little easier to handle. Finally, another man's cock in my mouth! I loved it!

These two experiences started it all for me, cruising porn theaters, arcades, the back rooms of gay dance clubs and bars, the closed-in patios of gay bars on clothing-optional nights, nude beaches, a nudist camp, and parks and woods. Eventually I landed in bathhouses and gay sex clubs, where I practically took up permanent residence, and even a large, monthly, gay orgy for a year. I sucked over 200 cocks, maybe a lot more, before finally, in a bathhouse in Berlin, falling in lust with a guy's ass for the first time, and finally losing my gay virginity.

That changed everything for me because of the profound deeper acceptance of my bisexuality it invoked. That ended my cruising days, and for the last 8 years I've just been getting together with guys in each other's homes for more personal intimacy, which I love a thousand times more. But cruising filled a huge part of my life, and was not without its merits.

Who knows, maybe I'll say the same someday about these casual hookups with guys in each other's homes, after I have met that special one guy who I spontaneously develop romantic feelings for, for the first time, and fall in love with--perhaps my final relationship destiny? Or maybe I end up cruising again. Who knows?

 

Yeah really, I have some great memories of the Craigslist days.

 

Yep I generally met them in the lobby too, then for some great sex with them

 

CL was good. I think Doublelist has now filled that void. I'm not totally comfortable with apps like Grindr. . . too many pic collectors. I like squirt and just discovered sniffies today which is good b/c you can have an anon profile but it does geolocate. . .which can be either good or bad.

 

I had driven to a boat ramp in Central Florida that had an area where you could stand and watch the boats and people. I went there just to get away for a bit and was enjoying the sunset when I was approached by a man near my age. We just talked for a bit and then he came right out asked if I wanted to suck him. He saw the look on my face and said he thought that was why I was there. We chatted some more and I let him know it could happen, but needed privacy. He and I walked towards the far end of the lot where there were no cars or people. Found a spot where there was a lot of vegetation that shielded us from any view. He undid his jeans and I dropped to my knees, lowered his pants, and proceeded to suck him.

Learned this was a place to meet others and where you stood indicated what you wanted.