My friends mum used to be a prostitute and I used to go round her house - does that count? I didnt go round for anything wierd just to say hey lol
I selected "Never, and I never would", but I only mean that I never have. I wouldn't rule it out some time in the future. I just haven' had the need to yet.
A lot of times, actually too many to count, when I was in the Army in Asia in the late 1960's. But never since then, and wouldn't again as far as I know.
Never done it... probably should. Seriously everyone pays for sex in some way. I think it's one of the simplest, most honest transactions that can be made. probably why it's said to be the worlds oldest proffession
Years ago, in Asia, when I was single and in my 20s and a U.S. Navy officer, I was fixed up with a high class courtesan who was fantastic - she knew how to bring out the best in a guy. She also was government health service-tested for STDs each week. Today, with HIV/AIDS, it is like playing Russian Roulette to consort with a prostitute, and absolute suicide to be with them without a condom. Don't even think about it. And some of the best looking female hookers are really trannys.
lol... reminds me of the time i let my buddy go home with one. Before he left he was so in love. it was all i could do to fight the hysterical laughter till they walked out the door. needless to say i got a hilarious call at a/b 4:30. I asked him how he liked the crying game. we never hung out much after that. funny thing, the tranny became his drug dealer.
When I was young, the girl next door didn't start screwing at fourteen like she apparently does now. Having sex with regular girls was fraught with problems. If you were lucky enough to get plugged into the brothel scene at a young age, like my friends and I were, prostitutes were an excellent alternative to those problems. I never had a bad experience in a brothel. A couple of girls were perhaps indifferent, like those who work at McDonalds, but most were very nice and eager to please. They were extremely clean, and the more politite and friendly you were to them, the better was their service. Sound familiar? Most of them were young ladies trying to support children without a husband. You didn't often see one much older than mid-twenties because by then most had indeed found husbands, usually from among their clients.
This could have been a bit more interesting had we included the girls for gigilo visits I do have a theory about marriage and prostitutes seems to be kinda the same cause one way or another you paying for it.
Hey All Interesting read here , Long story short id been with a couple of Hookers when i was 17 .. It was great , much less fuss than trying to pick up .. and you got to choose , so thats part of the cool thing , you dont always get to choose when you pick up. Since then i had one other when i was 36 on a business trip .. Actually rewinding , i am one of those guys that dosent feel he should pay for sex and indeed in Australia you gotta pay through the nose for a decent one wether she be a prostitute or a girl in a bar .. It seems they have a yearning for how much they can take you for either way , hence my aversion to meeting women in bars.. anyway I was in China .. i didnt have any interest in going to a hooker , but i was real drunk and my business partners dropped me off to a nice hotel .. I drank so much sake i was goign to be sick , so when they left i ws about to go to the toilet when 4 girls entered the room and the man with them said PLease choose .. it dawned upon me where i was .. I said No please leave , my priority was to throw up from drinking so much lol .. then another 4 entered .. And i gotta say the girl on the end was SO GO DAMN HOT ! I had to say yes .. Anyway she rushed over looked in my eyes and called for a strong coffee .. We did things i cant even pronounce .. needless to say the best part was when she put the condom on .. it stooped half mast .. she looked at me and smiles with a OOOOH ! anyway we got a bigger condom and had great sex ! it was like having sex with a girl friend , no hang ups and just went off for 4 hours ! Paid $80 bucks for that ! who wants to pay hunderds ? i think of her now and again .. wish i got her details lol Anyway so im back and 3 years later i meet a high class hooker in a bar ( just by chance ) , we got to know each other as friends , then went into a relationship , only after she quit the life .. i thought i could handle it and perhaps if she hadnt been a hooker we would still be together .. Its not a moral issue .. Its just what being a hooker does to a woman .. They enter it with aspirations of money and adventure but they end up pissing the money up a wall with a head full of bad memories having to have sex with hundreds of men they dont want to be with .. Its worse than rape because they consent to it for money .. Sooner or later this will stuff with your head .. I know .. this girl i was with was damaged from being a hooker , once a woman crosses that line she is never the same again .. My advise to any woman THINKING of being a hooker .. Think of the consequences ! No amount of money is worth destroying your soul for. it took me about 2 months to get her off the junk they were feeding her .. Brothels and Pimps want you to be loose and hot so they pump you full of " free drugs " the only time she could get into it was when she was out of it , the sex was stop start , she would flash back and stop .. start crying .. shout at me with a weird look in her eye .. She is an absolute emotional mess ! She has now committed to a 2 year councelling course to try to cope with post traumatic stress .. What a bloody waste ..
Yes, I have on two seperate occasions. The first was a call girl in Edmonton Alberta, unfortunately I had laryngitis and couldn't talk so it kind of spoiled the experience, especially when trying to negotiate a deal out. The second experience was much better. It was in Amsterdam and the woman kind of looked like pornstar Amber Lynn. Again though there was a communication issue as she was either Russian or Polish and didn't speak any english. It was no matter however as she did a remarkable job on me and left me extremely gratified. Well worth the 80 guilders I thought. Included a hot towel bath.
I've visited lots of prostitutes. Prostitutes turn me on actually. But I don't have much desire to just straight fuck prostitutes anymore on a client/pro level. I got bored with that years ago. Now adays I'm only interested in fucking prostitutes on video for "erotic entertainment purposes" . Of course I also like fucking them if I'm dating them... but that's a different scenario altogether.
Fascinating to see a 5-year-old thread get bumped up. Reading comments of guys who were 15 and now 20 and wonder how much their certitude had changed. Also dismayed at some of the self-righteous comments about NEVER doing such pathetic depravity. And the ignorance about getting diseases. Use a condom - and pros usually insisted on it. Oh, for me, lost my virginity to a Mexican prostitute and the next dozen or more times my only sex with women was with whores in Mexico and Turkey. As several others posted, I was in the military when I did it. In fact never did an American Pro as they cost too much. Also, I did the prostitutes before that free luv thing started. After getting out of the service (and with the confidence the pros gave me) it was no prob getting girls to bed for free. In fact the horny girls who fucked guys for nothing actually put a dent in the prostitution biz during the '60s.
Not sure why all the haters judging people who have been with hookers. Hookers are doing it because they want money. You go to work because you want money. Whats the difference? i see that Im helping them and the economy. If I had the time and money I would be in Thailand, Cuba, Costa Rica, Panama, and the dominican all the time. These girls give you what you want and you give them what they want. Nothing more, Nothing less
If this was 40 years ago and HIV, herpes weren't rapid I'd pay for hookers instead of looking for a steady woman.
Hey Shale .. I think i re started the thread. Im just trying to cope with my trauma of having had a relationship with a hooker, it was a total mental shit fight for me. I cant even imagine what shes going through. Anyway i hope that someone that's thinking of going into it reads this and at least is informed of the consequesnces, i feel that's important for women to understand. I understand some countries it's pretty much the only option .. Its a real shame that women have to resort to doing things they'd rather not. Anyway ive had positive experiences with hookers.... but i know ill never date one again .. Its just way too hard. Anyhoo carry on
I read your story. I've dated a few hookers (all while they were still hooking), and IMO it's a very individual thing. Some girls handle it well, and some don't. I believe it takes a certain type of mentality to be able to do that job. Some girls just aren't cut out for it. But I know girls who've handled it very well.