How can I get my girlfriend to spank me?

Piss her off, then hand her one of these, and bare that ass for her..

 

Amen Sister! I have a couple of these Jokari paddles. I have reduced many men to tears with it!

 

Also, I have spanked men with a Jokari paddle after I have found out that they have talked about me or made fun of me, called me bubbly or airheaded. They had a different opinion of me after I tore their butts up

 

Crikey any guy had better behave in the presence of you ladies !

 

Yes indeed. If a man messes with me, I turn him over my knee

 

Another way to get your girlfriend mad enough to spank you is to mess up Her hair. If you do that and then hand Her a Jokari paddle....I do believe that you will get your wish. I've spanked a few guys for messing up my hair

 

If you really want to get her mad then have a look at one of the most sacred places to a woman . The knicker/panties drawer and pull a few out whilst looking. You wont be able to sit down for a week once she catches you ! I got my butt kicked when I did that !

 

I really enjoy empowering Women to spank their men. I chatted online recently with a guy who had been wanting his girlfriend to spank him. So, I told him that if there was any way to put Her in touch with me, then I would be glad to empower Her. The next day, I received a message from Her. She told me about how he had done some things recently to really make Her mad, but being the shy, reserved person that She was, She had not said much about it. So, I told Her that one, the two of them most definitely needed to discuss it, and two, it sounded like he really deserved punishing. She said that She liked the sound of that, and that he should not be able to just get away with what he had done. I told Her that She needed to be very firm. Stand up and let him know that She is not pleased right now and let him know why. She said that he had not been truthful about something and that is when I told Her "you need to tell him that he had best tell the truth...or you will whip his butt". And She told me "he needs a butt whipping". And from there I just took it and ran with it. I told Her that once he tells Her the truth, then he is to be punished for not being truthful in the first place. She replied "that is when I am gonna whip that butt good! I mean...I'm gonna just...beat that thing black and blue". I told her "you go girl....spank that ass! Tear his butt up". And she said "his ass is mine now". So, as my gift to Her (and him), I got a Jokari paddle and had it sent to Her. Let's just say that He most definitely got his wish. She spanks him regularly now.

 

The only thing I am not sure about is the use of a Jokari paddle as a beginners implement . With an untrained hand these could do a fair amount of damage . I would have thought something on the lines of a furr lined paddle would be a good starter implement .

 

That is an excellent point. I thought about it after the fact and messaged Her and said to take it easy with the Jokari for now. She got really excited when She saw a picture of one of mine. So we both got a tad ahead of ourselves, LOL. I also sent Her several of the toy ball and string paddles to use on Him. For the time being, She mainly uses Her hand, the ball and string paddles, and a plastic brush. She gives him no more than 3-4 licks at one time with the Jokari. And not particularly hard.

 

I think the problem of using a non beginners implement is that the spanker can possible get carried away in the role. I know that from experience when my OH laid into me with a Riding Crop during a Role Play . Its the only time I have used my Safeword . It took nearly a month to heel . That's the first and last time I have been on the receiving end .The hand is certainly the best way to start as its more controllable .

 

Exactly. I have to stop and remind myself sometimes that these Females I empower are just starting out. In a similar situation, I was video chatting with a small redhead whose boyfriend was wanting Her to spank him. She is 4' 11" whereas he is a weightlifter. He's not towering tall. He's 5' 7" but very muscular. She sits down on a sofa and he lays across Her lap and She spanks him with Her hand. She, (being as little as She is, and he being a weightlifter) brought him to tears with just Her hand!

 

Tell her she's overweight, not very attractive, and dresses herself horribly. That would get me to spank you.

 

Not sure about that one. I think your in dangerous territory saying someone is overweight or not very attractive as it can damage confidence . I think it depends on the person with that one .

Dress fair enough as that can easily be changed anyway .

 

I thought it was obvious I was joking. Although I would most likely strike you when told all that at once.

 

I have blistered a few male butts for making comments like that.

 

I like you!

 

@Angela36 how are ya babe?

 

One sure fire way to get your girlfriend to spank you is to tell her that her butt is big. I do believe that you will not be sitting down for awhile