Is wife aware and approving of your bi activities?

lol - ouuuuuch!

 

Good husband!

 

Fuck, hasn't she heard of Blue Ball's?

I know, the whole fucking world over when they come home with the groceries they just want you to say is there more that I can go get. But in the middle of a Blow Job!

Imagine, in an alternate world that you bring home the groceries and your wife is blowing some guy and your ok with him getting a Blowjob from Your wife on your couch and you expect him to get up and get groceries from the car. Like, wtf? Uhh, I don't know what he's going to do and I'm sure your wife isn't going to go "Intermission" Im happy to hold that thought and resume your blowjob when your ready.

If that scenario doesn't work and she was still enjoying sex and she had a guy over and he is chock a block up her and pumping pussy or she has some guy or better yet another chick going down on her growling her out licking her pussy in a way that rocks her world cause girls know how to please a girl. Yeah, stop that just ask for help to get the groceries in. I think the cother chick is going to split , lickity split and you should have sat your dumbass and watched them licking each other out cause the groceries are still gonna be there.

Now your wife doesn't mind you guys trading blowjobs, in fact she is fine with it whether it's in view , alone or on the boat so long as she knows. What's was wrong with letting the first one go to completion while action was hot.

 

Hey, if the "price" of her being okay with it is having to get the groceries while in the middle of a blowjob, uh, um, you go get the groceries...

 

I guess your right but I'm sure it's not the ideal time right.

In part I find there is something about getting the groceries from the car has high priority for them. Then when they say , don't worry about it I'll do it that's not what they mean either. All this happening while your mate is sucking you off just adds to the confusion.

 

Oh, I can assure you that it isn't the ideal time - but you don't make this deal with your lady without giving her something - anything - that she may want in return and if that includes stopping what you're doing to get the groceries, you stop what you're doing and get the damned groceries because she reserves the right to withdraw her permission at any time and for any reason... and why would you risk that happening? What's so confusing about it? She does the shopping, you play pack mule and bring them inside because there's no such thing as you not doing your job and, yeah, if it was me, I'd stop and get the groceries without a single complaint because you have to look at it the way she's looking at it: What's more important? Getting the groceries in the house so she can put them away... or you and your boy sucking each other off.

And if he's really your boy, he'll help you bring the in because the faster you get that done, the faster you can get back to sucking each other off. Yeah, if she tells you not to worry about it, you'd better start worrying. If nothing else, it's an inconvenience and one that's easy to deal with: Go get the groceries so you can go back to sucking dick. Nothing confusing here that I can see because in this particular thing, Rule Number One is: Take care of home first. That means putting your pants on and getting the groceries.

 

On point with this one!

 

After months - years, really - of being unsure about how to balance my great marriage with my desire for occasional sex with men, my wife and I had a long talk and agreed to be ethically non-monogamous. So, I can play, within certain limits, so long as my marriage is always primary.

This is a huge relief and obviously the right thing to do. Probably should have had this talk before.

Now I ponder what is next.

 

The window is open for play with the green light from the misses. That's great! Plan safely and accordingly and enjoy yourself.

 

My wife had set me up for bi fun with our old gay friend, then another old friend and has watched us suck each other multiple times. We know when she is watching on the security cameras and give her a show for her money.

 

Would she feel the same if it were another woman?

 

No. The whole point of an Ethical Non-Monogamy agreement is recognizing what we cannot provide each other. I am sexually attracted to both men and women. She takes care of my need for sex with women.