Several years ago, we had a next-door neighbor who had a major social disorder. He was in his late forties, worked from home, and hardly ever went out. We also noticed no one ever came to visit, either. We would see him outside doing yard work very early in the morning once a week. My wife loves to work outdoors and is constantly engaging in various landscaping projects. She was planting a couple of dozen different types of flowers a few feet from a window on his house one morning. After a while she came to me and told me our neighbor began talking to her from his window while she was working. He let her know how much he liked her outfit. I said her little bikini top and tiny shorts drew him out. This went on for a few weeks. At dinner one night, she explained to me how bad she felt for him - no friends, no dates, no visitors. It was during this time we were exploring her desire to be tied up and blindfolded. I bought restraints and a blindfold so we could try it at home. A couple of weeks later she asked if I would take her shopping for a few more items. She bought nipple clamps, an ankle bar, a choker & chain, new wrist cuffs, better restraints with a body harness, and new vibrator. I couldn't wait to get home. As excited as I was, she said I had to wait a couple of days. When the time came, she went out on our back patio and told me to come out in a few minutes and bring everything along with her new vibrator. When I did, she was standing beside her lounge chair that was now facing our neighbors backyard and not visible from the street. I immediately began to get excited. She then instructed me to blindfold her, slowly remove all her clothes, attach the ankle bar at its widest, and then attach the restraints and nipple clamps. I placed the blindfold on her and then began taking off her clothes. We both heard a door close and I saw our neighbor walk out to the fence separating our properties. I told my wife he was watching and was about 15 feet from her. She smiled and told me she was his date and I needed to begin. The lounger was set where her head and back were up a little higher. I was to explore her body with my hands and then use the vibrator where he could see where I was placing it. I did everything she asked and this turned out to be the first of many more 'dates' she enjoyed with our neighbor. He never wanted to be physically engaged with her.....but spent many an afternoon and evening over a three year period watching her.
Wife and I have enjoyed a variety of sexual kinky things that we've always talked about. Roleplay, ageplay, toys, restraints, pegging, golden shower, adult theater, CD, public, voyeur We've always enjoyed everything we've done; maybe some things ove enjoyed more than her but she was still happy
We would never do anything bad to each other, or force the other to do something they didn't want. After having sex with a guy at a party one night. She wanted to meet him again, and me go along, and make it a mfm threesome. I didn't really like the idea, but she had watched and joined me with other women a couple of times. During the threesome she requested a couple of things. No. 1 she wanted me to hold his member and guide it in her. No.2 while 69 her on top she wanted me to lick her clit while he did her doggy. I just got out of line of fire before he shot his load. She knew I didn't want anything to do with another man, and never asked again. The thing I really hated was her wanting me to expose myself in public. Like walking to the ice machine in the hotel naked. Or letting my dick hang out of my swim trunks, and walking past a couple of older women, at a public beach. And wearing speedo swim trunks she brought for me. Although not super well endowed, my bulge was very obvious. She never minded flashing, or exposing herself, I tried to tell her it was a lot different for a man.
Yes, we take each other's advice. For example, my partner is an extremely sexually energetic person, he normally have sex twice a day (avg) and masturbate several times a day. Each time i need to spend at least 15 minutes on oral sex. So I suggest him to use male masturbator, it is a damn effective toy when he want oral, out of town, or too sore to have more sex that day. Recently I gave him one of Lovebirdvibe's masturbator called Winks as a birthday gift, he loves it!
My lovely is mostly what I'd lazily refer to as 'vanilla'. She isn't at all interested in 'trying new things' particularly in the matters of sexual extravaganza. However, there have been a number of times while at party like gatherings with friends, acquaintances and even strangers. These gatherings usually involved a jacuzzi or hot tub or a lake. No problem getting naked in the water where she was and is very comfortable. The good things is that led to her being comfortable (and actually looking forward to it) at nude beaches. She enjoys those ventures more than beaches loaded with textiles. Has she engaged with others while enjoying the jacuzzi or hot tubs? Who knows what goes on underwater and she isn't or hasn't been one to do and then talk about it. So, I live in a shroud of mystery and I don't mind it at all.