Its just physical pleasure.

When I travel, which is for fun now a days, I find the occasional massage parlor that will get me off. I've had a lot of physical pleasure with a masseuses hands all over my body.

 

My fwb and fb know me for many years and know I’m married and engage with many women over time. We have an understanding and it works. My fb is divorced and bi and while most of her partners are women she has a few guys she engages with for pure sexual pleasure when I’m not available although we see each other weekly and occasionally have threesomes. My fwb and I have a very strong relationship and she lives within walking distance so we engage several times per week. She is extremely sexual as well and very adventurous with fisting, anal and long marathons lol. So it is possible to have sex with the emotions on hold and managed.