Living together before marriage

studys have shown that people that live togeather before marriage have a higher risk of spliting up ... because they get in the mind setting that they can leave the relationship at anytime no strings attached ... but anything is possiable my 2bits of cents .

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I'm going against the tide here. My way of thinking was "If I'm good enough to live with I'm good enough to marry". I must say I was very lucky we met and didn't really spend all that much time together before we married. It's been great so far but I don't think I would marry again.

 

That's always been my train of thought as well. Living together day to day and night to night tends to break down the illusions of grandure and the best behavior between two people so they can see their true colors before they commit to marriage.