You are so right! I've orally pleasured so many married men in need over the years. While browsing through the Craig's List Personals I couldn't believe how many married guys were looking for other men to suck their cocks. So many were married to women who would not let them cum in their mouth let alone swallow it. I provided for so many guys who IMO were being orally neglected by their wives and many were returning multiple times a week. They were all wanting to finish in the mouth sucking their cock which their wives refused to do for them. I never understood why so many women wouldn't at least let their man blow his load into their mouth every once in a while. Hey, it was their loss and my gain. I'll suck off just about any married man who's wife won't swallow his load. It can be as quick and easy as he wants it to be or I can prolong the experience not just for his pleasure but for my own as well.
At 38 I’m now 53. Had seen some guys have gay sex at a resort I worked at but at that time I was homophobic (early 20s). But was infatuated by a penis. Well now if fully done it all with men and truly ? My sexuality married to a woman but I think I’m actually gay
I may get flack for this, but I was also rather homophobic in my younger days. In spite of this, after I was married to awoman who couldn't stop scratching my little head with her incisors I gave it a try myself just to see if there really was such a thing as "a good blowjob". I was extremely flexible back then and it was astonishingly intense, as well as long-lasting. Curiosity is an amazing thing, and mine has led me into some strange directions on more than one occasion. She caught me once and went totally non-linear. I eventually got rid of her, as I hated the constant whining and nagging over every other little thing. For cryin' out loud....I just wanted to know what a decent blowjob would be like. Some years later she asked me if I ever "got over my problem". I told her I never had a problem other than curiosity. She certainly wasn't any help in that regard, and I moved on to other things. While she made some crude comments to others in a vain attempt to ruin my future prospects, it never worked. If anything, fun women came out of the woodwork asking me "What's her damn problem?". It was great. And yes....I once later met a woman who I'm certain could suck-start the dead, which was also cool, even if it never took the place of more conventional pursuits. Life is an amazing series of twists and turns, and I've often felt like a cyclist navigating The Dragon.
In my husband's case, he started before we started dating. He had a very close friend that was gay. I met him early on when I started dating my husband, and I could sense there was more to their relationship that just "friendship." I suspect he was seduced by the gay friend at some point, then they became regular partner's. I did ask him about it at the time, but he denied any physical relationship. The friend passed away unexpectedly about a year into our marriage. He was devastated at the time. He finally admitted that they had a relationship several years into our marriage.
Upset or frustrated that he did not admit it previously, when we were dating. Not terribly surprised, since there were certainly plenty of clues that made it fairly obvious they were lovers.
become bi curious after I got my first divorce, started plying with my ass and tasting myself, curiousity started me thinking what does another man's cum taste like and what does a real cock feel like in my ass, so I explored a little
Yes I got turned on big time watching my wife get excited being naked with this guy which eventually led to her getting penetrated big time. With the guys huge cock was the biggest she had ever had. Her moans and the words that came out of her mouth I had never heard not even when I'm making love to her. She kept repeating " I love you" plus the words "don't stop" over and over again. ....................my wife was surely in love at the moment of penetration..................
I was 30 the first time I had sex with a guy, but I had probably been thinking about it for a year or so before.. I think it was the realization that I got turned on as much by watching the cocks in porn as the naked women. I chatted with a couple of guys online, one of them was a married bi guy who wanted to meet and have anal sex, I remember not being ready for that but very curious how he got into it. Eventually I met a guy who I sucked, he didn't touch me nor did he cum, but sucking cock felt completely natural (and I knew right away I was a bottom, never had any interest in fucking a guy but love receiving anal). Met a couple of guys after that for a mutual jerk-off session, about a year later I met an older married guy who introduced me to anal sex and I saw him on and off for a year. After that I was pretty clear about my bisexual nature, so no longer bicurious... All of this happen before I got married, for the first years of our relationship I didn't stray but in the last ten years (I'm in my mid-50s) as her interest in sex has waned I have begun to meet men on and off.
We supported each other, with our Bi Curiosities. She went first, tried it . My turn came years later. We are both happy we got to experience it, with each others approval and encouragement.