Not gay, but think about Sucking?

I'm very rarely attracted to men, but I love sucking cock, I find it intoxicating. I love being fucked by men too, but I am not romantically interested in them.
I like men and women for very different reasons. I feel romantic attachment to, and have relationships with women. I have sex with men.

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I am definatly more straight, i fancy most women i see, but i'm only attracted to the odd bloke, i wouldn't want a relationship with a bloke, but sex definatly, i did have gay sex once, he fucked me, but i didn't enjoy it much he was shit, i sucked his cock that was alright but i wasn't attracted to him, i only went with him because i was desperate,
but i seriously fancied a mate i used to have who was bi, but he didn't fancy me, although he had a wank while he was laying next to me in bed, i didn't know he was doing it until he'd just finished, otherwise i'd have tossed myself off with him, we used to snuggle up in bed together, but he wouldn't even let me snog him, i realy wanted to snog his chops off, suck his cock, fuck him, the lot, i'm getting realy aroused now writing this, i'm probably going to go for a wank in a minuete,
but like i said i wouldn't want a ralationship with a bloke, it wouldn't be as exciting as been with a woman.

 

I'm not gay either, but I have also thought about stroking and sucking another man's cock. I wouldn't want any kind of emotional relationship, no hugging or kissing, but just a FWB arrangement with mutual handjobs and blowjobs. I've had my cocked sucked by a man before, but I have yet to stroke or suck one myself. If it doesn't happen sooner then having a nice cock cum in my mouth will definitely be on my bucket list.:sunny:

 

I'm beginning to think this may be quite normal.

 

This has been very interesting to read and has somewhat helped ease the last 3 months of my life, where I have been confused beyond belief. I had been in two long term relationships with women who I loved very much and have had huge crushes on various girls since I was about 11-12. I considered the thought of men at about 16 and came to the conclusion that I would be comfortable trying giving oral sex but that everything else involving men made me feel really uncomfortable. I went through a phase last year where I watched a bit of thai ladyboy porn for pretty much the same reasons as a previous poster said (intrigued/aroused by the penis while still including the female form and not having to look at obvious blokes).

I've been single for most of 2012 now and had an absolute blast at the beginning, going out every weekend and hooking up with and fucking new and interesting girls. After about 3 months I began to feel really bad about how I'd treated my ex and I got a lot of anxiety and stress. I made the stupid decision of thinking that getting really stoned would calm me down and instead I basically freaked out and convinced myself I was gay, even though the thought of being with men on any level made me uncomfortable.

I basically managed to convince myself that my whole life and feelings towards the women I had been with, as well as my love for sex with women, had been a complete lie. It screwed with my head beyond belief.

But after having read some of the views on here it's been really refreshing and reminded me to look back on the view I had at the time, which was just to keep an open mind and not let anything be so black and white.

We are who we are, for better or for worse!

Thanks everyone

 

The first blowjob that I ever received was from a male neighbor the same age as I was, about 13. After that I was strictly into women for the last 40 years.
I was even married for 18 of those years. Lately I've been admiring penises and thinking about stroking and sucking an esthetically pleasing penis and how it will feel when it ejaculates in my mouth. I don't feel that this demeans or makes my feelings toward women a lie. I still love women and would gladly enter into a physical and emotional relationship with the right woman, but I still have these feeling and urges about a good looking penis. I don't want any kind of emotional attachment, just to stroke and suck a nice cock:sunny:.

 

i sucked my first cock today, it was fantastic!!! and like you, sucking is the only thing i am interested in.

 

I think alot of guys are into sucking cock. I fantasize about it quite often but like most I dont really want anything else.
I recently joined a gym and I often shower after I read posts about ppl getting action in there. Guess no one else is curious in my gym lol.

 

Yes and most of them are afraid to ever admit these feelings and go thru life suffering....

One should NOT BE AFRAID to do what they feel is right for them!!

 

Just because you suck off another guys cock doesn't make you a label fuqq all that how many lollipops have you sucked on how many straws have you sucked on its basically the same thing your just sucking something that's it you sucked on you moms nipple when you were an infant it's bred into us to suck. I'm not gay or bi nor have I sucked any cocks but I'm 100% certain given the right time and setting and the right guy I'd probably suck his soul out of his cock I fantasies about from time to time every guy does. If you haven't then you haven't been married long enough give it time.. you will..

 

Same me I'm 50 yrs old been married 2 other times on my 3rd one now love my wife to death would give her the world sex with her has its ups and downs like with any female she has her days but long story short I'm when I was a teen I used to have jerkoff sessions with a good friend of mine we would get high and whip out hard cocks and jerkoff to porn videos on VHS lol his cock was so long I loved staring at his throbbing cock when he would play with it and cum all on his chest and stomach we compared our hard cocks up against one another a couple of times he asked me to perk him off a couple of times and I did he did me as well we never sucked each other's cocks but fuqq the thought of his cock in mouth crossed my mind every damn time I seen it I just never asked him if I could at that time setting gay was not a thing back then like it's accepted now.. moving ahead in life from teen to adult 1st marriage never thought of sucking another guy off 2nd marriage my ex wife was a freak in the bedroom anything and everything was on the table she was a scorpio like me and Sex.lust . Fuqqing we did it all but have sex with another guy mmf sort of speaking I told her I thought of sucking a cock but could never go thru with it.i jacked 1 off a couple times but that's it she wanted me to suck another guy so bad but I just couldn't at the time.i closed in that department having 2 swords in the same room as my wife just wasnt. my cup of tea. But if I was in my own setting alone with another guy yes I think I would let go and suck him cock dry. On my 3rd marriage now my wife knows I once desired sucking another guy off when we first met but as time moved on I let it go.but she knows I still would like to try and suck another guys cock she knows that's still on the table.i just never could go thru with it. Family and all thru the years.... But now it's hitting me full force and it's all I ever think about now is sucking hard throbbing cock and swallowing every drop of his cum down my throat my fantasy is to be in a room on my knees with 4 hard long throbbing cocks with me sucking them all dry and maybe just maybe letting them fuck my ass I have absolutely no desire to date be with or kiss or hug or anything with another guy.i just want his cock and balls and loads of hot cum .THAT'S IT. Nothing else. The urge of wanting cock is so much stronger now.
Now that I'm older and male on male sex is accepted more nowadays. I just want to suck as much cock as I can before I get to old.

 

Sam

Same it's definitely on my bucket list to suck as much cock as I can right now I want it so badly ​

 

Well, gents, clearly, you don't have to be gay to suck cock and that should be a big "duh" in your minds given the number of male bisexual cocksuckers hanging out in the forums. Next - and this is one of my favorite questions to ask guys, "Who says you have to be attracted to the guy or be in an emotional relationship with him?" You see, this is the "hallmark" of male homosexuality and we've been mindfucked into believing that if you want to suck cock, then you must be gay, attracted to men, and ready to settle down with a man. Which is fine... if that's how you want to roll and you're still not gay if you do. What makes this whole thing worse is that way too many people don't know the difference between a bisexual man and a gay one and they, again, just assume that if you suck cock, you're gay.

You just gotta want to do it. Then find a guy who also wants to do it. Anything else is some socially created bullshit that was designed to prevent curious cocksuckers from becoming full-fledged cocksuckers (and long before I was born). If you want to and hug and kiss, there's nothing wrong with that but there is nothing that says that you have to; if all you want to do is suck his dick, then suck his dick and have fun doing it. I still don't really understand why we - men - keep making this harder than it has to be and saying shit that was old, tired, and played out before anyone in my family was born, from parents to grandparents. You wanna be safe doing it? Acquire the taste of condoms and use them to suck and to be sucked - and make it non-negotiable.

Or, as we used to say, "No glove, no love..." Discretion is always a must and "I won't tell if you won't" has to be inviolate and can speak poorly of your honor if you're indiscrete. Now, the only reason why M2M sex is "more acceptable" today is that it has taken our uptight society all this goddamned time to figure out that no matter what they say about it, men are going to keep right on having sex with each other. It's not quite "If you can't beat them join them" but it's "If you can't beat them, just leave them alone and mind your own business."

If it's something you really want to do, you'll find a way to do it. It really isn't as impossible as it might seem to be and an untold number of men - every friggin' day - find a way to get it done.

 

I always wonder and fantasies about sucking
and swallowing another guys cock and cum. But what really intrigues me on reading all these forums on married ,straight Men wanting to get sucked by other men and a hell of a lot really want and have aucked off a lot of men is I wonder do the women out there read these forums and think damn I better up my cock sucking game these men out here now are doing so much more betters then these females with ZERO complaints and swallowing every drop no spitting
Women better up their bj game or men or gonna seek out other men for tongue massage pleasure. Just saying

 

Right if I could suck my own cock like deep throat it to my balls. I would never leave my house I'd be to busy all day swallowing my cum and drying my balls out everyday every second my cock would be in my mouth.. I'd have cialis in me like a morphine drip. All day long hard as fuqq with my cock deep down my throat

 

I taught myself to be able to suck myself off and I wish it had been easier to do and "regret" when my body said, "Go ahead, try to do it now and see what's gonna happen..." But once I was able to get enough dick into my mouth to "offically" give myself a blowjob, jeez, I was sucking myself off every damned chance I had. My wife, by the way, just rolled her eyes (and stifled a laugh) when I told her that I could blow myself; it didn't affect us having sex but it was so damned good to be horny, she wasn't home and I didn't feel like going out on the hunt and I'd suck myself off and it is one of the strangest sensations I've ever experienced!

Growing up, I got to suck a lot of dick because I very quickly learned that guys love to have their dick sucked and many of them didn't give a fuck about who'd want to do it (or certain laws that said they'd better not). Married straight guys were like "gold" because all it took for them to want to get into dick was to be married to a woman who was doing him dirty when it came to fulfilling her marital duties - but the "law of the land" said that if you don't take care of your man, someone else can and will... and they might be the same sex as your hubby. It's never to say that women, on the whole, have a sorry blowjob game but one of the reasons why guys could get into cocksucking was that you really didn't have to go through a bunch of shit just to get your dick sucked or to be the one doing the sucking.

A woman I knew was having a major hissy fit because she found out that her boyfriend was giving and getting head from his best friend and she was livid to the point where I thought she was going to have a stroke if she didn't chill. She's ranting and raving about him doing this and I'd had enough of hearing it and asked her, "Well, when he wants a blowjob, what does he have to do to get one from you?" and she went off again and provided a stupidly long list of things he had to do and other conditions and seemed to be quite proud of the fact that she hadn't sucked his dick in months - but would make him eat her pussy and all I said to her was, "Well, sweetie, if you're not going to suck his dick, why would you think that he wouldn't find someone else who would do it - and without having to go through all that shit you said? Really - what did you think was going to happen once you decided not to suck his dick ever again?"

She was pissed beyond belief but, as they say, the truth hurts and I made it a point to let her know that because she refused to give him head, he learned that he could get it from another guy and without any hassles so if him and his boy are blowing each other, that's your fault, not his. I understand that women have the right to refuse sex and all that but they gotta know that if they do that, there are going to be consequences and one of them is their guy winding up with another guy sucking his dick as well as finding out what it's like to suck cock and swallow cum and, yeah, maybe, answer that ages-old question of, "What does it feel like to be fucked?"

I've had sex with many a man whose wife/girlfriend didn't want to have sex with him (and there was nothing wrong with her). They'd want their dick sucked and I'd be happy to do it because it's just sex and it's been a "guy thing" way before I was born - just boys being boys and even being grown up boys. The reality I came to understand is that it's not about being gay or even being bi - it's about wanting to experience it because at the end of the day, it's just sex and the forbidden nature of it can make it even more exciting.

You don't have to be gay. You don't have to be bi. You just have to want to do it and if you do, find a way to do it and have fun with it.

 

I am attracted to a womans all around look, the whole look. I am obsessed with a mans cock and will worship it.

 

My sexuality has been a lifelong journey. While I have had a fascination with guys cocks for as long as I can remember, I ignored the desire to wade into “homosexuality”. In those days we were programmed to believe same sex attraction was wrong and a perversion.
So I got married and was having plenty of sex with my wife so while the desire to suck another man’s cock was still there it was easier to not focus on it. But it was always there, I finally gave into those desires in my late 40’s. I felt very guilty and swore it off vowing to not return to it.
That didn’t last of course and eventually I found a friend with benefits in my mid 50’s. We became friends as well as each others private cock suckers. It was during that time I was able to work out who I am sexually, my desires for men have increased and it’s not just a man’s cock I am attracted to. While I am still very much attracted to women and love my wife very much even though she has no desire for sex anymore. I have found there are lots of men in the same boat I am in.
What I have found is that over time my attraction towards men has increased, it’s no longer just him cock I am interested in. I have enjoyed kissing and making out with men as well as being fucked. I never thought in my younger days I would gravitate the direction I have. But I have also become more and more comfortable with my sexuality. I’ve learned to not be ashamed of it.

 

My "story" is very similar. I guess l have always been interested in cocks and guys generally. In my 20's I am sure I missed an opportunity with a good friend but never properly read the signs or was just holding back because of the "homosexuality" aspects of the desire.
Married in my late twenties, raising children, building a career etc and otherwise just too busy to do anything about these desires. Move on to my late 30's and a good friend and I hooked up after a particularly boozy session. My first time sucking cock was an amazing experience and actually made me feel "complete".
Now in my early sixties I'm still married although the sex is long gone, my mate and I still get together for "our little fun times". He is now divorced and has his own place that makes it very easy. My wife knows him and encourages me to go and see him but has no idea what we get up to!
I usually enjoy a Sunday about once a month over at his place. We get naked, just chat, drink coffee, shower together and then on the bed and into some cock sucking and mutual masturbation. I am very comfortable with it and like you I'm not ashamed at all. It's just me and him enjoying our shared desires!

 

Don't overanalyze it. Sucking cock (and being sucked) is deeply pleasurable; and you like pleasure. It really doesn't have to mean any more than that.
For me, it satisfies a deep primal need like nothing else can. Incorporating his essence into my body; literally the physical manifestation of his life force, borders on the mystical and spiritual for me.
It's also really fun.
What it "means" is the meaning you ascribe to it.