Pegging is such an intense physical and emotional experience. Physically it just feels darn good. The mental/emotional part can be a mind bender. The role reversal is something else. I have only been pegged by my current wife, and it was quite the process to get to that point. When we were first discovering what we liked in bed, anal eventually worked its way into our repertoire. We both enjoyed analingus (however, you spell it ) And using small vibs While going down on each other,. The toys progressively got bigger. We eventually worked up to her, giving me her ass. OMG! She would orgasm just from being f*cked, No additional stimulation required. And they were intense orgasms. She eventually said that since I got her ass, she wanted mine! Oh Sh*t. So unbeknownst to her, I ordered a nice size sized strap on and harness. You should’ve seen the look on her face when she opened the package. The first time she wore, it was During a weekend getaway without the kids, at a rather swanky suite. Yeah, I splurged. That first night was epic! I had taken a quick shower, and was waiting for her to finish hers. Imagine my surprise when she walked out of the bathroom wearing nothing but that strap on. I am sure my eyes just about popped out of my head and my ass tangled. She took charge (yeah) and told me to assume the HDAU position. Yeah it hurt initially, but in short order, it started feeling really good. She was gentle and patient. She eventually had me on my back in a missionary position. I loved that, as we could kiss while she moved inside of me. She would stroke me just to the edge and then stop. Damn. She grabbed my hand and let me back to the shower (it was huge). Had me face the wall and put her cock back inside of me with a wrap around. Probably a top five orgasm for me,. I thought my legs were gonna give out. She does not peg me too frequently, but when she did, I knew I was in for a treat. a couple of the best or when she would walk out of our bathroom into the bedroom, wearing nothing but the strap on. She made me suck it, and then f*ck me….. while saying, I bet a real cock would feel better. a few times she would walk out of the bathroom wearing just a towel, and I could see the bulge underneath it. She seemed to take great pleasure of putting me on my knees in front of her, removing the towel, and her cock pretty much hitting me in the face. a few times when she could sense that I was getting close, she would say “ I’m going to come in you!” That always set me off. She was quite kinky back then….. several years ago. Unfortunately, things have changed in our later life. The woman that used to be my sexual soulmate, is now just a roommate. A sad existence.
When I was in my 20's work required a physical. The company was in the process of using a new ( Doctor) office. I was one of the first to us the new doctor. As normal I was instructed to remove my clothes and to put on a exam robe, nothing out of the ordinary. The doctor turned out to be a younger female, about my age. Just starting her practice. Everything was fine. At the very end she announced that she was going to do a prostate exam. At the time I really didn't know what the prostate was or where it was located. She had just finished checking for hernia's and I was still holding my robe up when she told me to bend over. She moved behind me and to my surprise she inserted her finger into my butt. Moving it around feeling my prostate. I was totally surprised. Caught off guard. And felt a sudden ejactulation which ended up on the floor. She removed her finger. Handed me some wipes and told me to clean up. I was so embarrassed. I know 5hat I had to be beet red when I left. Later that day I told my wife what happened. She thought it was funny. And got out a popular sex education book and did a prostate search. Bedtime she told me that she wanted to try it. With the same results. Over time it went from her fingers, to one of her toys that she decided was now mine. And over time to a strap on. After she passed away I had a couple of different girlfriends that never tried it before but really got into. But at the time I was still grieving, looking for someone like my deceased wife. So those 2 relationships didn't last. But the sex was great. No denying that. But they're wasn't anything else there in the relationship. My current partner 20 plus years now. Doesn't want anything to do with anal me or her. I miss it there was a lot of powerful, full body, overwhelming climaxes over the years back then that I haven't experienced since. Doing it yourself feels okay ,but it's definitely better doing it with partner.
I think the word "pegging" originated from Dan Savage, the sex columnist, around the turn of this century. He had received a question about a wife bending over a husband to fuck him with a strap-on. I think he asked his readers to vote on a name for the sexual act and "pegging" is what they chose. It's definitely a pc term for it, especially as the act became more accepted in society over the past 20 years. I guess it's a "cute" word for women and men to use. It may have originally been meant to be used to describe a sexual act using a strap-on between men and women, but I think the definition grew to include using a strap-on, so technically gender wouldn't matter (could be pegging if a woman or a man put on a strap-on however unlikely the latter is). Regarding what is considered gay act or not, I can remember as a teen that many people did consider any type of anal play as "gay" or "leading to gay". I remember when a girl fingered my ass while getting a blowjob. I loved it, but then had the "is this gay" thought like other people would say or joke about. It was frowned upon to enjoy it. Luckily people mentally/emotionally evolve/mature over time. You then hear/read people say that "any sexual act between a man and woman is not considered gay". Ok, cool, pegging isn't gay. Then hopefully you reach a point where you think, who cares if something is considered gay or not, just enjoy it. Personally, I have always enjoyed a woman playing with my ass. I have enjoyed being pegged by a woman, not necessarily due to the physical feeling although at times it has felt great. There is something psychologically exciting about role-reversal and/or a dominant woman and perhaps the taboo nature of a woman fucking your ass. I suppose that is possible with men as well. I would certainly think that a real cock would feel better than a rubber dildo. It's not something that I would personally want because I've never been attracted to men. I do agree that there are probably some men that really want to be fucked by other men, but would not because of some societal fear about being considered gay, so they consider it safer to be fucked by a woman with a strap-on. If so, you hope these people find the courage to just be their true selves and accept what they enjoy/desire.
Being a gay act would be 2 people of the same gender preforming a sexual act. A male and a female doing a sexual act, regardless of what it is ,IS NOT GAY. how hard is it to accept that concept?
I dunno - ask the people who'd tell you that it's still gay. It's my thought that the people who'd say it's gay aren't considering the woman with the strap-on; all they see and think about is a guy being fucked in the ass... and that's gay or he must be gay, wants to be gay, and other dumb shit that points to it being gay. You could probably explain the benefits of prostate stimulation to them... but in their minds, it's gay.
