I ask my wife every time we are with another man, if she wants to keep it up. She says that two things make her want to continue. One, she sees how much I enjoy it. Second, she says that since her "time of change" has hit, the only thing that gets her wet, is seeing me with another man. I love her to the ends of earth and beyond. I know I'm a lucky guy, and that's an understatement. Our guy lately is the exclusive man. He's really cool, and we both love him. He's been fucking both of us for some time now, and he doesn't stray.
I have enjoyed bi sex all my sexual life, I tried telling the wife I was OK with bi sex but she did not want to hear anything about it, we were swapping with another couple and during a lull in playing the other woman said she would like to see us guys playing together, I thought it would be OK in the sexual heat of the moment, when us guys started to make a move to touch each other my wife cracks the biggest shittie, grabbed her knickers and wanted to go home, it was a real battle to salvage the night. She knows I have had threesomes with her girl friend and her husband and that he is bi, just never asks what we get / got up to in our threesomes.
I have begged, and begged and begged for her to peg me, let me suck cock, suck cock with me, watch, you name it. Shes too churchy or vanilla to.play along. Cats out of the bag on my being bisexual but she wants no part of it.
You better believe it. My wife , also 70+, has been the one who opened my eyes. It wasn't until she was finished with sex, when I made the leap to be open , Experiment & Experience the Bi options available to me. I grew up and took advantage of the options available. If I would have realized it turned her on so much, I would have been more of an optimist sooner in life. I thought I was destined to a sexless rest of my life,with the exception of an occasional pegging .
Yeah, my wife tried bi sex one evening with a new bi friend.....when I was out of town. She said it was different, pleasurable, nerve racking. But it was now off her bucket list and didn't want to do it again, even though her friend wanted her again. Never went back... 100% straight......and now sexless.
My wife laid that on me and said she feels the same way and it would be ok with her .She did it for me once and called me on it. I didn't disappoint her