Were you always Bi, or talked into trying it?

I always seemed to have a friend or two who tried to talk me into something that I was doing before they were - it was always good for a laugh to see the look on their face to find out that, nah, this ain't nothing new to me; I've been doing it for years and this is, what, only your second or third time?

 

Kind of but not really. Friend and I were looking at nudie mags, and he asked me if I'd seen a cock before. I said no, then he asked me if I wanted to, then he pulled his out. Then he asked me if I wanted to touch it, so I touched it. About 5 seconds later it was in my mouth. I did that without him asking and I didn't even think about it. About a minute later he came in my mouth and that was that.

 

That’s awesome I bet his cum taste really good

 

I used to sit in same room while a friend made out with my sister.She is 2 yrs older then me and she loved big dick and they would talk to me while they had sex.He had a huge cock omg it was .Well let’s say I couldn’t stop looking at his cock while she sucked hm best part was he would cum so much and always play with some.He stayed over one night while my sister was gone and he was quick to want to go to bed.I found out once I closed my door he had his dick out stroking it.He told me to stroke mine and I did and without saying anything he reached for my hand and he didn’t get a chance to move my hand I right away started moving my hand towards his cock and I couldn’t believe how rock hard he was .He told me to get down on it and suck it.he said I knew you wanted it he said and I shook my head while he pushed my mouth down onto his dick and before I could do anything he started cumin down my throat.And that night is what made me crave cock and started an obsession of stretching my ass out

 

My experiences have been MMF and it was with my gf’s encouragement that I first sucked him. In fact she helped hold my head down on him.

 

For many months I was curious what sucking another man's dick would feel like but reluctant to actually do so. Mostly fear was my deterrent to doing so, possibly being caught doing so being I was married to a woman and had children. That curiosity was quickly becoming an obsession as I'd watch porn flicks of women sucking cock while masturbating and fantasizing it was my cock being sucked on as well as me sucking on the cock. So, I guess my inner voice talked me into actually following through with sucking another man's dick. It was a game changer for sure as the curiosity now became a serious obsession as I found myself sucking several different guys off on a weekly basis. For 25 years I was mutually sucking dick with other married men and really enjoying myself. It wasn't until I met my present wife (2013) that I was turned on to receiving anal sex at her request. Yet another game changer for me. It was the most wonderful feeling to feel another man's cock fucking me in the ass. It was then, when I came to the conclusion, I was bisexual and was finally free to be so as my wife was fully involved and supported my sexuality.

 

If I was going to do it (and I am curious about doing it) that’s exactly how I would love to do it

 

I knew I was Bisexual before I knew what Bisexual was Get your popcorn, this is a long one. Many years ago when I was around 8 years old my next door neighbor was my best friend. We had always played together and I don’t recall how it started but….i recall he and I hiding behind the bushes next to my house. We would be there with our shorts around our ankles and feeling each others cocks, grabbing each others ass. This continued and when I was 12 I would go over to his house after school. His parents would both be at work. We would fondle and stroke each others cocks. One day he was stroking my cock and I felt myself about to cum, It was my first time and he coached me through it. Not long after that we started sucking each other’s cocks and swallowing each others cum. This lead to kissing, generally making out, finally lead to fucking each other and cumming inside our ass. This carried on till I was 16 and started dating girls. I was married and divorced by the time I was 25 and hadn’t had sex with any other men, although the thought still made me very hard. I’ve had sex with 3 men over the last 20 years, all under interesting and unusual circumstances. Now I’m married and have been for quite some time. The thought of having a Bi/Gay friend for a FWB arrangement has become something I’d like very much

 

I was curious even at a very young age. My father’s cousin first introduced me to cock. He asked me to “help him drive” one night and took my hand to place it on his steering wheel. I knew that he had pulled his cock out of his pants and laid it on his steering wheel (huge cock), so I avoided that part of the steering wheel. I guess to tease him because I really wanted to touch his cock. He of course moved my hand to hold his cock and I felt it throb in my small hand as we steered. I would choose to ride with him each time we used two cars to go somewhere. That is all that we did, but I guess that it got me thinking of cock.

Later in life my teenage friend and I would show each other our cocks and beat off as we chatted about girls. I think I wanted more and he probably did too, but we didn’t go there. I did love looking at his cock as he stroked it. Another friend and I were broke down in his car one night. Floor shift, so for comfort we moved to the back seat as we would be there all night. He was 18, I was 16. He said that we could swap hand jobs as we were both hard from talking about our favorite little slut. I had to do it first though, so I did jerk him off in the car that night. He backed out so I never got my hand job, but honestly I wasn’t very upset. I enjoyed the feeling.

When I got married we were both sexually active before marriage so we started swapping stories in bed. That was hot for both of us. Soon it turned to “which of our friends would you fuck?”. Then came role play. Then came seducing and fucking our single friends. Watching her with another cock was what I really enjoyed most. I loved watching her seduce, suck and fuck our friends. I of course never minded fucking hers, but seeing all the strange cocks was a real turn on. By now I had dismissed all the thought of playing with cock, but I don’t know why. She was open minded enough that I could have told her and we would have acted on it. Sadly I lost her at age 30 to cancer. It was many years later that I finally realized how much I wanted to play with and suck another man’s cock.

 

Cancer fucking sucks. Like a thief in the night it robs us and we are powerless because we can't stop it.
My sincerest heartfelt condolences.
Sorry, didn't mean to hijack the thread. I'm sure you have great memories.

 

Thank you. I am old now, but she gave me many memories to hold on to through the years. Memories that I cannot share with the rest of the family so I share them anonymously.

 

Thank you for your condolences. The memories that I can share with others are G rated, so at times I reminisce anonymously on sites like this. Through the years I have had other relationships that were quite good, but none that checked all the boxes that she did. I could tell her anything and through the years I have learned just how rare that is. I consider myself to be a lucky man to have experienced this.

 

I was talked into it the first time, but never required any convincing after that.

 

I never had to be coerced, I had the curiosity since I was a young man. While masturbating as a teenager I could reach my cock with my tongue. I couldn’t believe how good that felt and it didn’t take long to wonder how it would be to suck another guys cock. Even though I got lots of sex after I married I still had the desire to give a blowjob. I ignored the urge for many years. Finally in my early fifties I gave in to them. First getting a bj from a few guys. That’s seemed to fuel to give on one even more.
So no, I didn’t have to be talked into it. I always wanted it. And once that option was explored it has grown to be more and more desired and enjoyed.

 

I fantasized for a long time about sex with another man. When I got divorced it was time to go for it. I've had sex with 7 men in the three years I've been divorced. the experiences have ranged from so-so to so-so-very good! It gets better as time goes by, but I wish all men were honest about what they want. I am very upfront about giving oral and getting anal with no emotional attachment.

 

Since puberty I’ve found certain men attractive and recently acted on my fantasies on about 10 occasions. It’s a feeling that won’t go away and blowjob porn usually causes me to have gay desires.

 

I was born bi, I've been excited by both sexes since I was preteen.

 

Despite having very little experience, I have always thought of myself as bi. My earliest childhood crushes were both boys and girls. I have cousins my age (boy and girl) and we would go out to the woods by their house when we were young and drop our pants to show each other our junk. There wasn't any touching, but a lot of close up inspecting and I loved checking him out as much as her.
Everything was pretty innocent until I was around 9 when my friend across the street moved to a nearby town. I went to visit him at his new house one day and a good day it was. He was excited to show me his clubhouse which was a storage room built above the rafters in the garage. There was a ladder on the wall that went up to a trap door which locked from the inside. We climbed the ladder to his hideaway then closed and locked the door. Nobody could get in unless we let them. He said he wanted to play a new game and we had to be naked to play it. In an instant, we were naked, face to face and on our knees because of the low ceiling. The first part of his game was us rubbing our dicks together followed by kissing. I envy 9 year old me when I think about it. Next, he had me get on my hands and knees so he could rub his dick against my asshole. He was too young to get a proper hard on, so in went his finger. I was in heaven as his finger moved around inside me. Next was my turn to be behind him. I repeated the steps that he did to me. It was fun, but I wanted to be back on the receiving end. He obliged. I remember having the feeling that this is what guys are supposed to do with each other. It felt totally natural. He moved again after that and I never saw him again. If he had never moved from my street, we could have grown up together, matured together and fucked each other.
Also at around age 9, I found some Playgirl magazines that my mom was hiding. I was already sneaking peeks at my dad's Playboys, so I knew what a big hairy lady bush looked like. This was my first look at grown men's cocks and I was in awe. They were big and glorious.
Age 10, I had an openly gay 14/15 yo neighbor with a female friend that would stay with me on nights that my mom went out. She was very cute and I had a giant crush on her. I always hoped she would teach me some things about being with a girl, but it never happened. She wasn't available one night, so my neighbor came over instead. It was a normal night of tv watching until I went to bed. I was only in bed for a couple of minutes before he walked in. Standing next to me, he dropped his pants and pulled off my underwear. He continually asked if I was ok with everything during our encounter. It was definitely ok with me. He started to rub my little package as I reached for the biggest cock I had ever seen in person. I grabbed hold of his meat and it started to grow and get hard in my hands. It was right next to my face as I played with it. Next he said he wanted to put mine in his mouth. I got very excited. He bent down and put his open mouth right in front of my awaiting dick. He then quickly backed away and said he couldn't do it. He was spooked. I told him that I wanted him to do it. I practically begged him to do it. He didn't do it. That was the first time I was blue balled.
Age 12, shared a bed one night with my mom's boyfriend's son who was the same age as me. I knew the daughter liked me, but I had no idea what the son was all about. I took a chance and put my hand down his underwear. He didn't resist, so I started move my hand around the outer perimeter of his cock. He still didn't resist. That's when I took his cock and balls in my hand and proceeded to play with my new found toy. He put his hand in my underwear and started to play with my package. We fondled each other for a while until we decided to stop because our parents were in the next room and might walk in on us. That was my only time with him.
Age 14, spent the night a a friend's house. He was in his bed and I was on the floor next to him. It was very dark in his room, so I decided to get naked. I started to jerk off while thinking about what two guys should be doing together in a dark room. That was the night that I actually came for the first time. I don't think he ever knew that I got naked, jerked off and shot a load all over myself while fantasizing about the two of us having sex all while just a few feet away from him.

I can go on and on, but I won't. This post is already too long. More soon.

Yes, I've always been bi.

 

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