Not exactly my best friend, but this Asian guy I met in a fishing group takes care of me when we go on fishing trips. Although I'm not really into guys, he gives great head and amazing massages. He told me to demand it whenever I wanted, so I make sure to make the most out of our trips.
With the "pole" always at the ready, and, also, when using the right bait, "the big one" will NEVER get away......
You don't really have to be into guys - you just gotta be okay getting head from a guy and, as I say, you just gotta like him enough to let him blow you and give you those amazing massages.
I had two or three such relationships, from a year and a half to a few months, but actually only the first developed into a true friendship.
My first experience was at the age of twelve with a friend of the same age. One afternoon we were looking at his dad's tit mags and getting horny as young lads do. It started with a dare to strip off and show your dick. One thing led to another and before we knew it we were in bed together playing with each others dicks. We enjoyed it so much that we would get naked once a week and have fun in his bed. Playing turned into masturbation, which became mutual masturbation then oral sex. At that age we just regarded it a fun and daring, but as puberty took hold and our bodies developed we both became aware of how much we turned each other on. Sex was a normal thing between us for a couple of years but then our heads were turned by the other sex and we drifted apart. I have been happily married for over 40 years now although I do enjoy the thrill of sex with other bi married men even now. Guess it all started with a tit mag.
Love this topic, After many years of being close friends I found out that he was thinking the same thing I was. It was 4 years ago on a hunting trip up north, we got checked into our hotel room and needed showered. We flipped a coin to see who was showering 1st, he won and so he hopped in the shower. Upon finishing he came out wearing a bath towel, and he wasn't shy about being nude. I finished showering and walked out of the bathroom only to find him naked in bed stroking his cock watching porn. I wasn't really shocked as we had often kidded about what man love would be like. He asked me if i was uncomfortable seeing him stroking, no I said its kind a turnon!!!! He motioned for me to come over and as I did he reached for my hand and guided it to his cock. Letting the towel fall off he could see I was getting hard. He said I have a confession, yea what is that. He told me he was secretly bi and hoped we could explore this opportunity. He smiled as all I could do was continue stroking his meaty dick. We were both hungry so we decided to dress and get some dinner. We would resume afterwards. During dinner we talked and I too had admitted to being like minded and I did this years ago in collage. He admitted to having some toys that he played with in his ass and would love to experience my cock in his ass. Later after returning to our room we got undressed and fondled each other until we were both rock hard. It was a fantastic experience as we both cummed multiple times. We been going strong ever since.
I had one such long-term relationship, we were both teenagers and it lasted about 5 years. It slowly evolved from a FWB, but it turned out really good, only towards the end we grew up and went our separate ways.
My lifelong best buddy and I never did anything with each other. It wasn't until 60 yrs later when we decided to try it. We do it whenever the opportunity arrises. Wives know and have no problem with it, which makes it a good thing. It just not a regular thing. In the down times my wife does assist with the help of our/my sex toys.
The best man at my wedding( we were best friends for decades, families both close) is now a woman, who gets more action, male or female than ever, and it makes me horny enough I sometimes think about crossing that friend zone barrier. I dunno, I hope someone else comes up and takes my mind off that barbed wired fence, quickly. otherwise, it'd be a moth too close to the flame kinda thing. (add to edit, nope,nope,not gonna do it)
I am involved with a guy I knew years ago but only reconnected with recently. I am single while he is divorced. The first time around we were aware of each other's bisexuality but nothing came of it. This time we became involved right after a party, sitting in an SUV in a parking garage. Nice and dark we started kissing and made our way up to jacking each other off. The evening ended at my place, both of us naked and in bed finally getting to such each other's cocks. It took a month or more before we engaged in anal, although I thought he had a sexy ass and wanted to tap it badly. It's pure sex, none of that emotional distraction. So far, he's my sole partner, neither of us are promiscuous and this suits us fine.
I can't say we became bed "buddies" but a close friend of mine since I was 12 years old recently got back in touch with me within the past year. He and I as teenagers were having sex with the same girls in the neighborhood individually. During those times a couple of the girls had told me that he had a huge cock. He'd bragged about it all the time, but I never took it seriously. Fast forward 40+ years when he got back in touch with me after losing his 2nd wife to cancer that he'd allowed another guy to suck his cock and couldn't believe how great it was. He'd asked me if I'd ever let a guy suck me off to which I answered "Yes, I have but I prefer sucking cock over getting sucked. Long story short, I got to suck his cock and yes it was huge. Very thick and 10+ inches long once he got fully erect. I love sucking on big cocks, but I could only get about 4" of his cock in my mouth because the head of his cock was so huge. Anyway, I finally got to suck his cock as I had fantasized about doing so many times.