Penis Envy

I have found that having a tiny flaccid size is not a turn on for women and if someone knows I have a very small penis even when erect it tends to not garner a lot of sexual interest even if they believe suze doesnt matter.

 

My husband is not very big and he knew that I needed More so he set it up with a friend of ours and Everything is Good Now!
We have been fucking for over 20 years!
He seems to know when to Cum to see me!

 

If my wife had to fuck someone else to get her sexual satisfaction she wouldn't be my wife for long!!!

 

She'd likely leave you when she finds sexual satisfaction elsewhere, before you'd know she's getting it.

 

I have been out manned by boys ever since I had the smallest penis in high school phys ed changerooms. I never got any bigger and it is still the same.
The most embarrassing was in the showers at a sports club a couple of pre teen cousins were considerably bigger than me. ( I was about 18 or 19 at the time)

 

To the old OP question, Apologies, but I don't have penis envy. I'm 6'6 and while I wouldn't consider myself small, I also don't think I'm large either. I never really bothered to measure to be honest. All I know is I've never had complaints and my partners past and present seemed to enjoy themselves.

For those with below average penis sizes, it's not the end of the world and there are always other things one can do to ensure their partner ends up satisfied. Besides, there's a large portion of females who are not as hung up on penis sizes and don't go around with a measuring tape. Many are focused on the overall act itself and the experience with their partner being intimate.

But don't forget, guys can be just as susceptible to body images and what they think society tells them is the right body type. Being over 6', abs, well toned, not too hairy, size of their penis, the list goes on. Women deal with the same thing, like with their weight, thigh gaps, boob sizes, are their boobs symmetrical enough, and so on. No gender is immune.

Me personally? I couldn't give a rats ass about the size of a a woman's breasts, though I'd rather be with a woman who's flat chested than a woman with implants. It's a personal choice of course, but implants look fake and there's distracting scars. If a woman gets implants for themselves for their own desire to be happy with their body, sure, I suppose I wouldn't hold it against them, but I sure as hell would oppose her getting them to please me.

And yet, society, magazines, films and TV, etc. will give us the impression of what is attractive and what is not. It's all subjective opinion, but we're all bombarded by the same crap. I started in Graphic Design in a Photography Studio doing photo editing and retouching. I know what goes into what we all see and with all the digital work, makeup and lighting, what we all see is unachievable in the real world, so why strive for any of that?

None of us are perfect and we all have our flaws. Flaws that we're more critical about than anybody else would ever be. Flaws that most other people wouldn't even notice, let alone care about.

 

I forgot to note, we're all more critical of appearance when we're younger. In my teens and early 20s, woman had to have big boobs, their vagina had to look a certain way, and so on. I was also more critical about my own appearance and always thought I was unattractive & no woman/girl would want to be with me. It wasn't until my early/mid 20s where I was told by other girls and those I went to school with years ago that they thought I was hot. It was a bit of a shock to me and took a while to get my head around the idea that some women thought I was attractive.

And also during those years, I met a lot of women. They weren't perfect and neither was I, but I still found them attractive. Those standards I had when I was younger soon went away. It's not just about boob size or anything like that..... It's about how your whole body, your face, your attitude and personality that come together as a whole human being that makes you sexy and hot.

 

Maybe your wife would do that, but mine is perfectly satisfied!

 

I’m 6’2” about 210 and in decent shape but I still need to lose a few pounds. Growing up I never compared penis size in phys ed. When flaccid I am 4-5” depending on how cold it is but I am a grower. I do grow a nice 9” erection that has a gentle curve to the left. I’ve never had any complaints from the ladies and have always been a gentleman. If I were on a nude beach you would never know how big I really am.

 

Today I was totally put to shame by a bunch of young lads in the changeroom at my sports centre. They were there for a swim meet or something. I had actually just come out of the pool so my tiny penis was absolutely babysized.

 

Do you know what male pattern baldness is caused by? Testosterone. That's right, the big ball juice contributes to hair loss. So be happy you got the big balls producing lots of testosterone and keeping that average size cock working well into old age. Daddy may not have been so fortunate.

 

I have a smaller to average 5 -5.5 inch uncut peis. All the females, I have been with we're satisfied. I am very bi curious, and my desire is to find a man with a punishment similar to mine. I guess it comes from my desire to know what it would be like to suck and be fucked by my cock.

 

I remember the first time a guy had a hissy fit because my dick was longer and fatter than his. I... didn't understand it. He didn't want to have sex with me because of it. Girls were very weird about the size of one's dick. Too big, not big enough, too skinny, foreskin, no foreskin, etc.. They would play us against each other by mentioning that "Tony's" dick was bigger or smaller and once I read about penis envy (and in a dirty book at that), well, that's just stupid, isn't it? All of us guys had dicks; maybe not all the same size or anything like that but we all had dicks and, um, we proved that they worked just fine.

I don't think we, as males, ever really outgrow penis envy. I'm online trying to find a dick to suck and I contact this one guy and the first thing he wants to know is how big my dick is and I'm annoyed so I say to him, "It's big enough; what difference does it make?" Well, apparently, it did make a difference and penis envy reared its silly head once again and... it took me a few more hours to find a guy who didn't give a fuck who had the bigger or smaller prick.

I felt that a lot of penis envy happened because we were told and made to believe that girls preferred big dicks and the psychological damage would set in and, sadly, plague guys for all of their life.

 

So true, but I never considered myself as the greatest stud in the world. When my girlfriend told me she wanted to try other men I didn't really care, after all I had been with other women. But when she did it was with a man well endowed, she had heard about from her girlfriends. I know men who hated the idea of their woman being with a bigger dick. So back to penis envy this same guy ended up sleeping with several women in their circle of friends. so, I envy him.

 

The reality is girls do prefer larger cocks to have sex with. Study's done which used examples of different size phalluses, and only the phallus, to determine how women related to penis size. To the majority, the women surveyed selected the largest phallus for a one time sexual fling. For longer term relationships the women selected the shorter but not the shortest cocks. While this did not take into account the attractiveness or personality of a live cock owner it did lend credibility to having better than average. I myself have found it to be advantageous having a nice bulge in my pants when trolling for pussy in my younger years. Knowing this I am certainly not as envious of those men who aren't as well endowed. But on the other hand I do find it very uncomfortable having a large member which can interfere with activities outside of having sex.

 

Regarding penis size. My wife told me that her previous boyfriend was well endowed, and it hurt to have sex with him. As I'm pretty much standard size at 5 1/2ins long and thick(ish) with a large head, she finds that I'm a very comfortable fit, and quickly gets off when we indulge. So I think it's horses for courses. There are penis size queens just as there are size queens for all of the human dimensions, but I think most of the population fall into the middling area when it comes to comfortable size.

Oh, one other thing. I'm a grower not a shower, and my missus told me she thinks it's really neat that my dick shrinks back when not in use, so that it doesn't dangle and flop about when I walk.

 

I had refused to be envious of something about someone else that I couldn't do anything about. Lot of girls/women said they tried guys with huge dicks; many said the sex was too painful while a few, I guess, liked the pain. It would be confusing to hear women insisting that it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean when it came to cock size but then turn right around and voice their preference for the biggest dicks... even when they didn't have a lot of good things to say about them. I was like, "I'm not even going to concern myself about it..." because my dick was what I was born with and wishing it was bigger or smaller wasn't going to change the fact that it's the size it is. One girl told me, "You're big enough for a woman to know she's got a hard dick in her but not so big enough to make having sex with you uncomfortable, well, until you hit bottom in a girl."

I had better things to do than to engage in penis envy and if other guys had it, that was on them to deal with.

 

The first time I got naked with my boyfriend, he took his first look at my dick and said, "Oh, shit..." then he apologized for a lack of size which, in fact, wasn't his problem and I had already told him that I didn't care how big or small his dick was. He had a... slightly bad moment of penis envy and I had asked him, "Well, can you handle it?"

He could. He did. Later said that he didn't know why he had that moment but I knew why because even M2M, "How big is your dick?" was one of the first questions asked and my question of, "Is it really that important?" would reveal that, yes, it is and, yup, guys would drive me crazy apologizing for not having a dick they would trip over... and acting all weird when my dick was bigger than theirs... or I was the smaller guy. Penis envy didn't make sense to me and I wasn't going to take part in it because my dick is the way it is and so is yours and... are we gonna do this or what?