Penis Envy

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by Blindboy, Dec 18, 2021.

  1. MojoToto

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    I have found that having a tiny flaccid size is not a turn on for women and if someone knows I have a very small penis even when erect it tends to not garner a lot of sexual interest even if they believe suze doesnt matter.
     
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  2. Alice in SC

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    My husband is not very big and he knew that I needed More so he set it up with a friend of ours and Everything is Good Now!
    We have been fucking for over 20 years!
    He seems to know when to Cum to see me!
     
  3. JS420

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    If my wife had to fuck someone else to get her sexual satisfaction she wouldn't be my wife for long!!!
     
  4. Bazz888

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    She'd likely leave you when she finds sexual satisfaction elsewhere, before you'd know she's getting it.
     
  5. MojoToto

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    I have been out manned by boys ever since I had the smallest penis in high school phys ed changerooms. I never got any bigger and it is still the same.
    The most embarrassing was in the showers at a sports club a couple of pre teen cousins were considerably bigger than me. ( I was about 18 or 19 at the time)
     
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  6. LesterJester

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    To the old OP question, Apologies, but I don't have penis envy. I'm 6'6 and while I wouldn't consider myself small, I also don't think I'm large either. I never really bothered to measure to be honest. All I know is I've never had complaints and my partners past and present seemed to enjoy themselves.

    For those with below average penis sizes, it's not the end of the world and there are always other things one can do to ensure their partner ends up satisfied. Besides, there's a large portion of females who are not as hung up on penis sizes and don't go around with a measuring tape. Many are focused on the overall act itself and the experience with their partner being intimate.

    But don't forget, guys can be just as susceptible to body images and what they think society tells them is the right body type. Being over 6', abs, well toned, not too hairy, size of their penis, the list goes on. Women deal with the same thing, like with their weight, thigh gaps, boob sizes, are their boobs symmetrical enough, and so on. No gender is immune.

    Me personally? I couldn't give a rats ass about the size of a a woman's breasts, though I'd rather be with a woman who's flat chested than a woman with implants. It's a personal choice of course, but implants look fake and there's distracting scars. If a woman gets implants for themselves for their own desire to be happy with their body, sure, I suppose I wouldn't hold it against them, but I sure as hell would oppose her getting them to please me.

    And yet, society, magazines, films and TV, etc. will give us the impression of what is attractive and what is not. It's all subjective opinion, but we're all bombarded by the same crap. I started in Graphic Design in a Photography Studio doing photo editing and retouching. I know what goes into what we all see and with all the digital work, makeup and lighting, what we all see is unachievable in the real world, so why strive for any of that?

    None of us are perfect and we all have our flaws. Flaws that we're more critical about than anybody else would ever be. Flaws that most other people wouldn't even notice, let alone care about.
     
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  7. LesterJester

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    I forgot to note, we're all more critical of appearance when we're younger. In my teens and early 20s, woman had to have big boobs, their vagina had to look a certain way, and so on. I was also more critical about my own appearance and always thought I was unattractive & no woman/girl would want to be with me. It wasn't until my early/mid 20s where I was told by other girls and those I went to school with years ago that they thought I was hot. It was a bit of a shock to me and took a while to get my head around the idea that some women thought I was attractive.

    And also during those years, I met a lot of women. They weren't perfect and neither was I, but I still found them attractive. Those standards I had when I was younger soon went away. It's not just about boob size or anything like that..... It's about how your whole body, your face, your attitude and personality that come together as a whole human being that makes you sexy and hot.
     
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  8. JS420

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    Maybe your wife would do that, but mine is perfectly satisfied!
     
  9. breeder9

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    I’m 6’2” about 210 and in decent shape but I still need to lose a few pounds. Growing up I never compared penis size in phys ed. When flaccid I am 4-5” depending on how cold it is but I am a grower. I do grow a nice 9” erection that has a gentle curve to the left. I’ve never had any complaints from the ladies and have always been a gentleman. If I were on a nude beach you would never know how big I really am.
     
  10. thepapasmurph

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    I've always had a bit of a complex about this. I have even gone so far to think the size of my penis has impacted my confidence in general, not just when having sex. I've seen smaller ones than mine, but I sure do believe I am a little below average at just a smidgen over 5" erect.
    I have large balls which seems to be an attraction. LOL. My father was built the same way as me. I tell you this because at one time my grandfather's health was failing (my mother's dad) and I assisted him in the bathtub. I remember looking at his penis and wondering why I couldn't have inherited his instead of my fathers. I did inherit his hair loss - my dad had beautiful black curly hair. I didn't get that.
    I guess that's the roll of the genetic dice!
    I often joke that "all men are not created equal".
     
  11. MojoToto

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    Today I was totally put to shame by a bunch of young lads in the changeroom at my sports centre. They were there for a swim meet or something. I had actually just come out of the pool so my tiny penis was absolutely babysized.
     
  12. straightma1e

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    Do you know what male pattern baldness is caused by? Testosterone. That's right, the big ball juice contributes to hair loss. So be happy you got the big balls producing lots of testosterone and keeping that average size cock working well into old age. Daddy may not have been so fortunate.
     
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