Married bi - seeking ways to meet bi FWB - without getting caught

There have been a variety of ways to meet for me. I’m also an advocate of meeting for a coffee or beer first, but I can’t say I’ve always followed my own advice. A car meet is one way but admittedly it’s not ideal. There is a hot tub spa not too far that provides private rooms with hot tubs for rent by the hour. I’ve done that a few times. There have been occasions that I have hosted in my home after getting comfortable over time chatting on line with a guy. It is a leap of trust that does have some risk to it. But if you have been chatting with this guy for a year it likely you have gained a sense for what he is about.
I had a friend with benefits that I met with over the course of several years and we would host each other in one or the others home while our wives were at work. My wife knew I had a friend from work that I rode bikes with and it raised no suspicions, there was nothing out of the ordinary for me to go on a ride with a friend. She had no way of knowing we would always find a secluded spot in the woods to suck each other off.

 

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I was thinking of a way to introduce the guy as some one from work or old school friend and then they get used to them and you speaking seeing them.

 

If its meant to happen it will happen.