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There have been a variety of ways to meet for me. I’m also an advocate of meeting for a coffee or beer first, but I can’t say I’ve always followed my own advice. A car meet is one way but admittedly it’s not ideal. There is a hot tub spa not too far that provides private rooms with hot tubs for rent by the hour. I’ve done that a few times. There have been occasions that I have hosted in my home after getting comfortable over time chatting on line with a guy. It is a leap of trust that does have some risk to it. But if you have been chatting with this guy for a year it likely you have gained a sense for what he is about.
I had a friend with benefits that I met with over the course of several years and we would host each other in one or the others home while our wives were at work. My wife knew I had a friend from work that I rode bikes with and it raised no suspicions, there was nothing out of the ordinary for me to go on a ride with a friend. She had no way of knowing we would always find a secluded spot in the woods to suck each other off.

 

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