I’ve noticed other men’s dicks in gym locker room (usually the men around my locker) or in showers. Especially when I was in high school where guys were realizing ‘size’ counts. I don’t look at the next urinal. That’s verboten!
It's pretty natural in a public locker room setting for men to glance or gaze at other men's penises. Personally I am in the slightly above average range and I have never had any type of penis envy. That being said, when I start looking at other men's penises I prefer to look at the average sized penises. Large, huge penises look unnatural to me and don't arouse me at all. A nice, 6 inch, circumcised cock is much more appealing to me. So if you're average sized and you see me staring at your penis take it as a compliment and not an insult. I'm not staring because you're small, I'm staring because I like what I see!!
Because I love cock so much, and get such warm tingly feelings whenever I see one, I'm always looking at guys' cocks when they're visible. And I do prefer larger as opposed to smaller ones when they're flaccid (I'm sorry, but if I'm truly honest, a nub does nothing for me). And erect I prefer above average size cocks. But because I'm also above average sized at 7.5 inches, I'm quite happy, and maybe a little bit proud, of my cock, especially when I'm already semi aroused enough for it to grow a little bit beyond my normal 3 inch flaccid, hanging and swinging a bit. Actually, it's not even necessarily arousal that gets me that: it's more just when my energy is at a good level during the day, which is often the case; usually when I'm taking a pee during the day, I pull out a 4-4.5" cock, and I love that. Yeah, I can be a little narcissistic. I like the same above average sized flaccid cocks on other guys. But for most of my 33 years of mostly gay bisexuality, but still very attracted to the female body, I almost always only discreetly looked at guys' cocks in the locker room or on a naturism beach, in fear of anyone knowing that I'm a gay fag pervert. But during the last couple of years after finally identifying as gay, and feeling so proud and happy with that, I no longer care who knows my sexual orientation in the locker room. That's especially the case because I'm looking for hookups as well. But it's mostly because I finally feel so at home with my homosexuality, and have less need to hide it. At 63, I'm too old to waste any more time.
I work in a job where I see men and women parts. In line of work it’s just job and is asexual at work, like a switch is flipped. regardless I absolutely notice men’s size. (Women’s size and parts too) I think that is natural.
I think that this obsession with size is really a joke. The size of mens genitalia is based in part on heredity, and most people living today are derived from successful fertilization. If you consider female satisfaction and orgasms, the female G Spot is only about 4 inches from the opening of the Vagina. Escorting your lady of choice to satisfaction becomes a matter of technique. The criteria that women use chose their partners is totally up to their preferences. The problem I see is society controls the eduction of young men and young women on how to perform in relationships, This influenced in part by religion. The end result is that young have to apply trial and error to find a mate. Young women learn about sex from other women and from the Young Men they date. It does not have to be as difficult as it turns out to be.
