For adventurous women you ever do anything to surprise or shock your partner? And men have you ever had your woman shock you?
Adventurous woman. Why is it that a woman with a active libido can be called adventurous. It's not that I mind a woman who is enthusiastic about sex. But it seems she is either admired or chastised. Can be called easy, a slut, or whore among other terms. All demeaning. Or as suggested, adventurous. Or promiscuous, frisky, healthy, even sex-positive. I love women who enjoy sex. Sex just isn't fun with a woman who doesn't enjoy it. So here's to you Adventurous Women! You can knock on my door anytime.
I think it’s the best of both worlds and if both sides of your partnership are comfortable with it open and honest with each other then I think it can strengthen and heighten the relationship. Its wonderful that you have found that with each other. My partner and I explored this very briefly in our first three or four years we were together, and it was exciting for us both, however then menopause shut things down completely for her and there is no interest in me (or anyone as far as I know…). I have been patiently waiting 6 years for a reversal… none in sight yet. Losing my mind at this point.