Adventurous Women

For adventurous women you ever do anything to surprise or shock your partner?
And men have you ever had your woman shock you?

 

Yes I do try too

 

We have a lot in common!

 

Adventurous woman. Why is it that a woman with a active libido can be called adventurous. It's not that I mind a woman who is enthusiastic about sex. But it seems she is either admired or chastised. Can be called easy, a slut, or whore among other terms. All demeaning. Or as suggested, adventurous. Or promiscuous, frisky, healthy, even sex-positive. I love women who enjoy sex. Sex just isn't fun with a woman who doesn't enjoy it. So here's to you Adventurous Women! You can knock on my door anytime.

 

I think it’s the best of both worlds and if both sides of your partnership are comfortable with it open and honest with each other then I think it can strengthen and heighten the relationship.

Its wonderful that you have found that with each other.

My partner and I explored this very briefly in our first three or four years we were together, and it was exciting for us both, however then menopause shut things down completely for her and there is no interest in me (or anyone as far as I know…). I have been patiently waiting 6 years for a reversal… none in sight yet. Losing my mind at this point.

 

Many of my partners have been adventuresome women. Can't say I have any complaints about that lol.

 

You seem to be very interesting

 

My wife and I are/were very adventurous, till menopause shut her down, , we have had sex in a lot of places where there was a high risk of being seen, as played with couples and singles indoors and out.

 

I enjoy women like you even if it doesn't involve sex. Free thinker. Open minded. I have a friend who is happily connected with her partner but once a month or so just has to do something "outside" of the relationship with me or other close friends. She says she "needs" it but I think she just really, really likes it. No matter to me. I like women like that. Sometimes she just wants to masturbate with me. Other times, it's more intimate. All fun. I love it.

 

Well, first, adventurous women and slutty women can be two different women.

When I was a senior in college in 1976 I worked part time as a teller at a bank. I worked one night a week alongside a woman that lived in the immediate area. I usually drove her home each night and she would invite me up to her apartment. At first I declined every time because I was working on a senior thesis. When the semester was over, I accepted her next offer.

Right away, she asks me, "Would you please fuck me in the ass? My ex boyfriend thought it was dirty and wouldn't do that to me." That was an immediate yes for me since I hadn't experienced that yet. She was REALLY into getting fucked in the ass.

So, I responded with, "I've never shaved a woman before. Would you be interested?" It's 1976, and it isn't exactly a common thing like it is now. She responded yes right away, and she was nice and smooth in no time. Then she told one person at the bank, and in no time, everyone knew.

Then she asked me, "I have a r*** fantasy. Can you do that to me?"

Yes, I was taken aback by that, and couldn't go there.

So, she wasn't slutty, but she was adventurous.

Before I started dating my wife, add went through a phase where she admitted she was a slut. She had sex with a lot of men including a lot of one night stands. The sex was vanilla. There were a couple of adventurous encounters. The nice white Irish Catholic girl hopped in bed with a well hung black man for a couple of encounters when the opportunity presented itself. She also went out to a car in a bar parking lot to get fucked by a man that she thought was well endowed. He was. This was back in the early 1980's, so interracial sex was still a little taboo.

So, she was promiscuous, a slut, whatever you want to call it.

When we started dating, within a few weeks, she was shaved, and getting fucked in the ass regularly. Over the years, we went on to incorporate toys into our sex life. Then there was mutual masturbation, taping our activities, facials, femdom, role reversal and strapon play including cross dressing etc, spanking. There was also some sex in places where we could have been discovered. There may be more that I can't recall.

So, my wife went from being a slut, to adventurous in a relationship.

 

I consider myself a slut on a big adventure!

 

That sure sound familiar…