I posted this extreme generalization as an oversimplification. I don't personally believe it. Just wanted to see if anyone could make a...
Sorry, DQ ... in case you haven't noticed, men DO stereotype women as x, y, and z. Women do it to themselves a lot, too, by playing along. I'm...
Uh ... wow. Except for ihmurria you all proved my point. Men think smart women are intimidating and pretty women are property. Thanks.
I don't THINK he is possessive -- he hasn't given me any signs of such. I just have had VERY bad experiences with monogamy and don't trust a...
I dunno, my poet gave ME HPV ... and HE got a new girlfriend although I can't get a new man -- my conscience won't let me! So why was it so easy...
Once I was told I was "too smart to be a girlfriend, but too pretty to be taken seriously." What do you think about that concept -- not just in...
My sadness comes from the fact that, at least in my case, this ex was the first person who DID accept me ... I used to joke that I was invisible,...
No advice yet -- just commiseration. SUPER -- you and I are in almost the exact same predicament, except my ex and I weren't virgins ... he'd...
Yeah, I don't want to be anyone's shrink ... goodness knows I need one myself ;) But that's just the thing -- I'm pretty messed up, and I need...
I am not trying to force it. Trust me. I was with someone I loved, but he thought he had hurt me so he left.
I am really offended by this post now. You guys have completely misinterpreted me. I am not a fatalist! A fatalist would not have posted a plea...
So, a fellow at my job asked me out ... he has a crush on me and I have a casual crush on him, but we are both really shy. Whenever I ask him to...
I didn't mean to come across as condescending. I do NOT think I'm superior to anyone, I just don't care what other people my age think because I...
I've been aware the whole time. So can you say I've never actually been sick ... ? And I never said I had stopped trying! I said I was still...
No, she's a beautiful, stick-thin, blonde, Anglo girl who plays up her looks. On the other hand, I'm white but I'm not Anglo; I'm petite but I'm...
I know !!! Okay?! I KNOW!!!! I just want to know HOW! And I'm getting there.
DQ -- Welcome back! And thanks :) Chick -- Good points. Thank you as well. :) FYI: I am already over my childhood. Seriously. I got over it when...
Yeah, I know I can get over it. That's not the point. Neither is how I got this way, although I try to explain it for clarification purposes....
A super-simplified explanation: Co-dependency means to most people that one person is reliant on others for his or her sense of self. My...
=) good point. I had only spoken to female doctors who all seemed in a hurry to get to the next patient ... and who didn't really know a whole...
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