Okay so mine has to be the Doxy!! Delivers a strong vibration that penetrates deep into the body, not very quiet but results you get will drown...
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Okay so id go with love beads or small plug getting started and alot of lubricant, if you are really unsure id try an anal ease spray or cream....
It helps your erection stay hard, bigger and longer lasting try a vibration cock ring..the vibrations should stimulate him and you.
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