Everyone who posted here is right -- the point of having sex with a partner is not necessarily to orgasm but to enjoy the other person and the...
YOU DO NOT NEED TO DEEP-THROAT THE FIRST TIME! IT WILL MAKE YOU GAG AND MAYBE VOMIT! Just get used to having it in your mouth first. Take as...
I agree with you, Allonym, but it's harder to put into practice. I know he likes me, and I know that I made mistakes that hurt him. So I let him...
Wow ... you know, I almost feel for the guy now. A lot of women ARE gold diggers. But there are a lot out there -- like me -- who are not. I hate...
Wait until you're eighteen. No, seriously. You will be so much more ready then. Whatever you do, ignore smokindude. :)
I think the Quest for Orgasm is killing all of us. Trying to have one makes sex really un-fun for me and my partner (who is having an existential...
That would be like cheating on a test, wouldn't it? ;) I did read through all the forums about preparation, but they involve ass beads and toys I...
Good point. I had a kinda bad situation with another of this ex's friends (it's a big city, but it seems like he and I are both friends with...
I don't think this is a real person. I think he is a normal person pretending to be outrageous in order to make the rest of us respond and reveal...
My main question is: why does it matter? Are you worried she won't want you anymore, that she will "switch sides"? I'm bi, sort of -- I DON'T...
Haha! I must say, I used to be scared of the idea, but then again I was also afraid of oral for a while, and I've found that nothing sexual is the...
Ask who first? My ex or the nice guy? Trust me, I would definitely ask the nice guy before we got involved ... um ... isn't that how it works? ;)
He has a problem with foreplay -- I sometimes think our bodies make him uncomfortable, so I try my best to just "get right down to it." And what...
Yeah, sorry I came across as a martyr. I'm not one, I just wonder sometimes if I will ever get it right, and yeah, sometimes (to quote Walk the...
He's ... um ... kinda small. I'm worried about "expanding my anus" - I want to keep my body as normal as possible, thank you! don't want to...
I am too tight. We tried -- it hurt, even with lube, as I knew it would, but I am used to pain (I've had a LOT worse) and figured I would just...
Lorna -- excellent again, thank you :) Astrobreaux -- quite well-said as well! I just want to say: Thanks, gjg, it is because of men like you...
Can I be completely selfishly blunt? I care more about what it will do to ME. I don't give a damn about my ex ;) Especially because, like I said,...
I agree with Mr. Berguh -- speak up! It's never too late. And anything is better than ruining both a friendship AND a relationship because you...
I guess what I do is considered "divine sex" -- I actually hate to be touched and feel extremely uncomfortable when a lover tries to touch or...
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