What I noticed is that the sex drive might still be there but the strength of the orgasms wanes quite a bit. Well, I've been with my wife for 18...
No, it is the same. It's just that women socially are subjected to an unfair biased standard set (I think) and enforced by men. The pain is the...
Well, I told myself I would proceed on the premise that what I feel, my partner also feels, i.e. if I find myself attracted to other people from...
I wish my wife looked at it like you. Your guy is lucky.
Interesting. Your take on this issue. But I don't see myself living the rest of my life with anyone else but my wife. So, unfortunately for me...
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Thanks Ruby for your authentic feedback. What worries me is I sense she thinks it's wrong to feel something (sexual attraction, admiration,...
That's what my wife thinks and it seems many other women. I like how you explain it. Of course I don't love every woman that I have lustful...
I regard myself as a fairly controlled person, calm and can think things through but I have this one challenge currently. A sort of uncontrollable...
Come on ladies, I would like to get your views on this.
The other issue for my wife is that sex signifies love. She does not believe the two are separable. Therefore, if I have sex with someone else...
I suppose societal pressure says once you are married you can't have sexual attraction to other people of the opposite sex let alone enjoy sex...
But I do wonder sometimes if it's naturally possible for her to never have such a thought of bedding another person she finds attractive.
She is a prim and proper woman. I can't think of her imagining such. When I try to gently get into this type of discussion, which she is not...
Therein lies the challenge. But it's like one is expected to switch off. Sometimes I feel like it's immoral to feel this way, let alone act on...
Not sure I follow?
This probably sounds like a stupid question but I'm in such a mental/emotional conflict. I'm married. Been with my wife for about 18 years, 5...
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