14 years old? How young is too young?

You people do realize its different all over the world right? Like in some countries its 14, why is that? I mean geez thats obviously a kid right? Umm i guess not, other governments obviously disagree. So if other governments disagree what does that mean? It means this is a bullshit issue. It means the United States is so religiously fucked it cant see straight, and thats all this boils down to isnt it, religion?

 

Pretty much. Funny...half these highly-offended people were products of parents, grandparents, and ancestors who, according to their logic, should be inmates in prison and listed on a registry.

Go figure.

 

our 14 year olds just aren't as mature anyway. the difference between me being 14 and my stepson being 14 is HUGE. i'd already been self sufficient for YEARS. kids these days aren't raised to be self sufficient anymore. i think it's a natural thing, the slower maturation. considering population, there's likely some instinctual imperative to keep our children from breeding early and being able to provide for them longer.

i mean, i have no problem with people of similar emotional and physical maturity hooking up. i did, it was beautiful. we were fully educated, though. i don't get how keeping a kid in the dark is supposed to be helpful or good. what crap. i do worry over someone taking advantage of a child to fulfill some emptiness they can't fill with a woman nearer their own age. that's hardly a good catch for the youngster, that's for damned sure.

 

I don't think this sort of thing is necessarily always wrong, if the age gap isn't too much and the relationship is just right...but it almost always is, and judging from your post, it's wrong in your case. If I was this girl's older brother, I would've wupped your ass; yes, I think S has a right to be pissed.

 

it has nothing to do with religion or government, like the posters above have mentioned, its about maturity level... and wether or not the situation is being taking advantage of... and just cause a girl wants it doesnt mean she should get it, thats not showing maturity

 

Please put a number on the point where the age gap becomes too much.

 

It's the distance between you and whoever you'd like to fuck, Mr. Septuagenarian.

No seriously, it's obviously a judgment call and it depends on the people involved. You know that.

 

No, I don't know that. That's why I asked you .... you seem to know.

 

We have ELONGATED juvenality through our culture, which I now define as a "sub" culture (not subculture).

The 16 year old of 1969 is the 26 year old of today.

We have promoted LOLITA and made puritan laws behind it.

United States of Hypocrisy.

 

Well said Libertine! :cheers2:

 

wayyyyyyyyyy to young,ew pukkkkkkkkkke

 

Sin, have you thought about this from her perspective? Does she want to have sex with you? If she did, would she regret it? Does she want her first time to be with some pervert that just wants a young pussy for one night? What fun is that for her? (I'm curious, were you planning on having gentle, careful sex with her, or fucking her brains out?) I don't see her benefiting from this, just you. If she gave in to you, it would be naivete on her part, and you'd be taking advantage of that. Yeah, she could choose not to do it, or you could choose not to coerce her or stand idly by and let her make a mistake.

 

yeah, i agree. but that doesn't change the fact that the kiddos are developmentally retarded in terms of history. the how, whys and wherefores don't change anything at all. it's like knowing you got cancer from smoking. knowing how you got it doesn't mean you don't have to take it seriously and plan your actions and reactions accordingly.

 

I do not know if people are familiar with Southern California but the kids are most likely getting more and more immature but they are looking much older. Looking at my Jr High year book (like only 8 year ago) and looking at my cousins it is really kind of creepy thinking they are only 13 or 14. But I would like to address the fact and ask a question.

Their is an 18 year girl I am interested (I am not getting anywhere with and generally hang out with other people so it is not serious or going anywhere) but she looks like she is 14-15. Small frame small breast pretty, short, and petite in all dimensions except she talks like an adult. Do you think it more fucked up to be attracted to a legal girl who looks 18 or an illegal 14 year old who looks 18?

I hate to insult myself but is my activity as stated through the post indicative to someone who is immature. Someone said that it is okay if they are at the same maturity. Maybe I am at her maturity. (I probable will never drink with that girl again if at the very least her older sister so that is hypothetical)

 

It is absolutely natural and normal for males of any age to be attracted to post-pubescent girls regardless of age.

We rely on a thin veneer of civilization to keep us from harming those who are vulnerable .... and this usually is sufficient.

I pity those who are only able to echo the politically correct crap that we are fed every day. If you fall into this category, you don't have any idea of what you are missing by letting others do your thinking for you.

 

It is prob crap poetry but before I have written

For this mustang mind minds not
For look what is has wrought

I do not mind letting them do some of my thinking the man who is writing would rather play it safe. The man who is out there is just always very lonely

 

old troll your only thinking from the males point of view, i defy you to give me a situation where a 14 year old will benefit from a one night stand with a 20 something year old


especially when alcohol is involved...



if you pity me for trying to protect a young child, well thats just odd

 

Being a mother of two , now grown , daughters , I can honestly say that a 14 year old girl is NOT READY for sex , no matter how old she may look.
She may FEEL grown up , and may think she knows it all...but reality is a whole lot different than a 14 year old girls fantasy.
DONT Do IT.

 

It really pisses me off when people try to put words in my mouth. This is your first time so I'll assume that you were under the influence of outside forces and I'll hold off the attack dogs.

Here is what I said:

I would normally not try to think of “a situation where a 14 year old will benefit from a one night stand with a 20 something year old” ….. but I cringe before your defiance!

Situation: Young’un has had a year of professional medical and psychological preparation for The Event. Upon it’s completion she will receive 1,000,000 Euros and there will be no more war in Afghanistan! Alcohol will make it better, maybe the 20 something will just pass out.

I do not pity you “for trying to protect a young child” ….. I applaud you for that. I pity you and others like you that have closed your minds to ideas that do not fit your own personal prejudices …. especially when those personal prejudices aren’t even yours …. you and others like you just borrowed them from others …. who also are only borrowers. My hopes are that you will become thinkers. You will have a much fuller life.

More to the point though;

Back in the Original Post the question was about ATTRACTION not ACTION!

This Troll's personal opinion is that being attracted to a pretty 14 year old is perfectly natural and normal. The morality of acting on that attraction isn't mine to judge .... I think that it is circumstantial. I once deflowered a 14 year old nymphet.

Was it wrong?

I was two months younger and also a virgin. Was it still wrong? We lost contact by age thirty, but up to that point I didn't see how it had adversely affected either of us.

 

Back when I was a very young teen all the other boys (but not me of course) would often say, "Old enough to bleed, old enough to breed!"