3 way marriage

Seems like you might be though. I mean it's great that you are going after what you want, but you said earlier that you want to commit and love them, yet they don't even have to care about each other?

Sounds like you are getting just want you want and are being a little selfish.

 

However that said, if they would be happy that way, then I guess you win!

 

I don't think it is selfish, I just would want things to work and that's it. After all, everybody wants their partner to love them right? Is that not selfish? Why would it matter if my partners didn't love each other? I would just like if they did then it would be a huge circle of love.

 

If I love my partner, then I would expect him to love me too, if we were going to be in a relationship. Otherwise, I would be wasting my love on someone who can't/ won't give it back.

It seems selfish because you are concerned about having multiple women, yet don't seem to consider how they would feel about each other.

It's looks like you know that you would be happy with multiple women, but haven't really thought it through.

 

Ok, you are right, the only way it would work is if we all loved each other.

 

are you also open if your "two loves " will go dating and loving two more loves? if that's okay with you, aint that too chaotic?

 

You sound like you are looking for a polyamorous relationship. And there are lots of websites and resources around to help people interested in polyamory find and meet each other.

However, most polyamorous women that I know of take a rather dim view of forming relationships with people who already have their relationship configuration all figured out.