A Friend with Herpes

i was in a similar situation.

the sad truth, you cant save people from themselves! if these broads like sleep around and not protect themself, they will learn the hard way eventually whether it be from your friend or someone else. maybe im being harsh, after all i slept around as a teenager and never got anything at all!

all you can really do is tell your friend to get tested, or tell him to wrap it up before he smacks it up or else you will tell his next fling that he got the herps. even though you think thats a bitch move, im sure he would rather a girl find out from you than find out for herself, although either one is quite the mood-killer.

 

If it were me I would confront the person.
Probably shout at them. Make 'em feel bad.

 

Well, it's not treatable... otherwise... great idea.

 

I don't think that people check craigslist that much, especially not college folk.

 

nothing like having "pretty much" proof positive before spreading nasty rumors...

 

Yeah, honestly... I don't have too much pity for girls that sleep around that much... I'm with you on that one.

I'm pretty sure that he's aware of the fact that he has herpes, and he probably wraps that shit most of the time... but who knows what kind of drunk sex escapade could lead to unprotected nookie.

I just don't think that I'm in the position to tell some girl that he's got the herp, especially after he has fucked her. He really is a pretty damn good guy, got the herp from his bitch of an ex-girlfriend...

Ehh, c'est la vie.

 

Well... he told some of his really close friends that he has it. He is either lying to them, or it's a fact. I don't think that people would spread those kind of rumors about themselves though.

Props for being judgmental though.

 

you could report him to the state health department.

 

That would be a little mean. I'm pretty sure that he got it in Chicago though, so they might know about it there.

 

mean, and effective

you're going soft pavel, he doesn't even have to know it's you.

 

you could always dress up as a girl, get him to want to sleep with you, and then don't tell him you're a guy. When he finds out and is hurt/shocked tell him

"Unwanted surprises are never good; stop spreading herpes."

Get up and walk out.

 

Well, I'm just not truly bothered by the fact that he's spreading the herp... it's more comical than anything.

Reporting him would just be mean.

It's just an interesting scenario. I don't want to be the one who stops him from spreading it... it's a decision that he should come to by himself.

 

Hmm... that could possibly work but I think that he'd know it's me.

 

oh so its a second hand nasty rumor your helping to spread.. even better..

 

I'm glad that you disapprove.

It means that I'm at least doing something right.

 

oh and im judgmental but your going around telling people someone has herpes because someone else told you??? lol nice....

 

Well, it's pretty much a fact, or as close to a fact as something like this can get. I'm not really actively telling people, only if it comes up in conversation or if a girl that I know asks me about him.

 

Find a girl with HIV and get him to fuck her

 

Now that's simply pure genius.

 

a friend of my bro-in-law's has the herp. He gave it to his ex wife, and they had a little girl. She went on myspace and told everyone. lol
We dont hit jays after him when we found out.

My former best friend had hiv and he spread it around. I told 4 people, two exes, his then current boyfriend and his mom. I wish I could tell more people, but i am not gona spend my life following him around and see who he tries to fuck to tell em. I know that since he found out he has still had random hook-ups and went to bath houses, so god knows how many people he's infected.
I wouldnt keep quiet. I would like someone to inform me if i was in that situation.