A Question for all Nudist Husbands.

I guess Son of John is MIA - ohhhhhhh darn

I asked my nudist/swinger bf. His quick reply:

- Because she's sexy as hell so why not?
- You're nudists so odds are your wife isn't the only one nude.
- Women deserve the same right to express themselves as male nudists do.

 

Women have far more beautiful bodies than men, so if you get around naked together, the woman should pass around a hat for collections. Its free perv time? Yeah it is on the nudist beaches. Been there, done that, next time I'll pass around my beach hat and feed the hungry on the proceeds. Then the horrible experience would be worthwhile.

 

Apparently people in Missouri are trying nudism.

There are two resorts and one travel club listed in the AANR Missouri page.
Missouri is not always cold. It can be plenty hot in summer and mild enough in spring and fall that clothes are not needed.

As for the legality of nudity in Missouri, technically it is legal, but the law criminalizes nudity done for shock value, so you may be accused of that even though it was not your intention.
Link to Missouri law

 

This problem with confrontational and annoying lecherous looking could easily be eliminated if the nudists will work as a team and turn up the heat on the peeping toms. At a lot of beaches there are "Friends of (fill in beach name) Club" that create a friendly climate for men, women and children.

As for women having far more beautiful bodies, uh not most of them. Just seems like fewer women get all in his face when they see a naked man, even a hottie. It's not your beauty that is the problem. It is the attitude of the perverts that needs adjusting. (and a lot of nudists men and women are prepared to give that "attitude adjustment".

 

I don't own my wife's body - and I love her, she is sexy and beautiful, she loves feeling this way, and even loves being seen, I love that she loves it - we are happy this way, carefree, emancipated. And she is not disturbed that other women see me naked -why would she be?

 

Unfortunately this doesn't happen very often as people go to a beach for relaxation not confrontation.

 

Well, here's how it works: Nudists (and people of good will who just happen to be nude for the day) tend to sit in fairly close proximity at American nude beaches.
In these nudist clusters, things are very peaceful 99% of the time, no one hassles anyone else.
When a jerk shows up, these folks have got your back. No worries.
The problems happen mostly to newcomers who avoid the nudists, thinking that they would be more comfortable with a more isolated stretch of beach away from the nudists. They hope that this will help them get used to being nude on the beach.

What actually happens for far too many isolated couples or women by themselves is that there is an endless parade of guys who come by to chat up the women, sit extremely close and start making sexual invitations. Then the newcomers pack up and swear that they'll never go to the nude beach again, not realizing how unnecessary this all is if they'd just sit with the nudists.

On any given day, the nudists might not be there, so you are generally better off looking up the local beach clubs on AANR or TNS's web sites and go with them on the days they go.

 

I think you are missing the point about nudisim/naturisim. We all have bodies our being inhabit. Vessels if you will. If she wants to be free and show herself as an expresion of that feeling. I think the problem comes when less mature people see her and get something out of it. Pereverted perhaps. Can we control other people? No. So why get hung up on this issue and let everyone be themselvs.

 

I disagree. Rude people get kicked off the beach all the time.
And try as you might, some of these rude people won't give you a moment's rest until you forcibly evict them from the beach (or law enforcement does it for you).

 

nobody asks that original question

 

I agree!
The topic has drifted away from this original question.

My thoughts:
Does a husband have the right to insist that his wife's body or at least some parts of it never be seen by others?

Is nudity always in a sexual context? No! Physicians, massage therapists, painters and other artists see nudity all the time. In some cultures it is common for men and women to see one another nude in public. So why do we have to get so upset about it?

What does it mean for someone to "see" another person naked?
Does it mean a passing glance or staring?
Out of 100 nude women (or clothed), I might find one or two attractive ones, but most seem quite ordinary to me. I am inspired by beauty, but most people don't give it much additional thought. We go on to sports, conversation or talking with people we know. Only a handful of socially immature people fixate on a passing stranger.

 

Someone email Son of John and tell him that his ship has come in.

 

It seems our friend Amontillado is infected with a rare medical condition known as "Chronic Intellectual Constipation" which is only relieved by sudden burst of verbal diarrhea. Unfortunately, there seems to be no cure!

 

^Worst Misdirection Attempt Ever^

 

I'm not entirely sure what Son of John meant by that, but I sense a note of disapproval. I've never been shy (nudists aren't shy!) about saying that I think he's misusing this group to try to get his fetish tickled, but I've also said that it might be interesting to hear about where he got his obsession, and what it really means to him. There's no doubt about what SoJ is looking for--read what he said on 12-14-2009, 11:04 AM, in a thread in the Sex section of Hipforums (Love and Sex > Masturbation > What is *your* weird obsession? Be honest!) Comparing the dates, he posted the message in the Masturbation section just 2 weeks before he started this thread here.

 

It would be my wife's choice who she wanted to see her naked not mine.

 

I have a quote for our friend Amontillado. It is: "We hate most in others what we fear most in ourselves!" Obviously, my comments and questions have reached to an inner part of his subconscious which is the source of much fright and anxiety. My guess is that he is either unmarried, and probably for very good reasons, or that his wife, for whatever reasons, is someone that he would be ashamed to let be seen naked by any others.

It's time to take a large dose of that emotional ex-lax, my friend! If you will send me a private message, maybe I can help you! This is a sincere offer, and not an attempt to make you even more uncomfortable.

 

Hey Son of John, rather than making up amusing theories about other people, how about responding to my message from back in June? It's only 3 postings up from here.

Your interests really fit better with the Masturbation section. And a bonus! I promise I'll never follow you there to hassle you.

 

I have to agree with the answer of that what does the question matter. Any nudist would agree that being exposed in natural form is the entire idea to start with, so why the question of a mans wife being naked in front of others? Its the point of view of nudists that there is no shame in the exposed human body, as well as something to take comfort in. Beauty in any form is something to be admired and can never be owned, nor should anyone try to own. Wheather anyone realizes it or not, we were all born of the same energy, and so are one in the same anyway. When any of us look at another, we see nothing more than another part of ourselves. With this said, whould there be a question of what does anyone think when they look at themselves naked? This may be difficult for some to understand, but never the less the truth of it. So next time maybe focus on an idea thats actualy worth some mind.

PS: If we were meant to wear clothes, we would have been born wearing some. Clothes are nothing more than protection from the elements, but in most cases, a way to hide shame and fear.. So many are brainwashed with the created poison garbage of society. Get with the real deal and truly live!

 

Fearful is the man hiding behind his cloth...Powerful and free stand the man( or woman) standing proud is their own skin. Mother nature has no need for lies.

 

PS: All points of view aside,and mine being no exception, WILLY BLUE by far had the best lagit answer...(Because being naked is the most natural thing in the World and she is her own person, why would I not be willing? She is also her own person and its her body to show or not show as she pleases.) WELL PUT WILLY !!!