yes this is what im saying, and the other guy-the 14 yr old- you need to calm down, this is what im talking about, i can remember i used to get defensive like you do, just calm down and ignore it.. Duh
uh okay whatever, fine they are funny.. but besides- all of the 'juggalos' who paint their face and braid their hair because of ICP and all of them would be considered a poseur because, they are imitating ICP.. me- i dont paint my face or do anything like that, i just listen to em, and go to some concerts, so i wouldnt be a poseur of that, but i could be considered a poseur of a 'rebellious kid' because im NOT doing that.. if you can understand that
no no, trust me...you'll want to do away with this one. omg...they are the stupidest fucking band ever...please kill them as well.
before I say anything... are those pictures of you in your sig? Very good looking! Secondly, I'm going to suggest something and you can take it or leave it, and it's not supposed to offend in anyway... But usually people are violent or like violence for a reason. Usually it's something within them, maybe they're angry with or at something, or a lot of things, etc... whatever the case is, you need to learn how to channel your anger into things other than violence. EVERYBODY, I dont care how peaceful you say you are, feels that they want to punch or hit something or someone sometimes when they are angry because it's human nature... Now as much as I am a non-violent person and believe that you should NEVER hit another human or any other animal for that matter, you DO have release your tension somehow. If your instinct and reaction is to hit or kick something, I'd suggest either buying a punching bag, or something that doesn't hurt another living creature. Or, if you believe that somehow you can learn to center yourself, and not do this for the WRONG reasons, try out some sort of martial arts. However, if you truly love violence, and only want to learn martial arts to BE violent, I don't suggest practicing any martial arts, because that is NOT the point of it. But I'm saying, if your passion for violence is something you would really like to change, that could be an option. If it's not something you want to change, then that suggestion should NOT be used as an option. Do you have any hobbies? Hobbies that release emotional tension? Such as art, writing, or music? I'd say find something that you enjoy that can help release tension like that... I used to paint some really disturbing canvases back when I was having issues that caused anger. Although I hate violence, people who promote it, etc. I give you props for admitting your weakness... I just strongly urge you to work on it; hurting anything that is living is NOT right.
i didnt mean to offend anyone in here, and what i said it wasnt meant to get this far in depth.. it was just a simple statement that got way out of hand so sorry to anyone who i have offended sincere thoughts, andie
And P.S. I hate the word poser too. I'm not getting on your case for it, blindhobosam... But I think the word "poser" is very high school... it sends a sense of rejection to the person you are using it upon... I also hate it, because who knows another person better than that person knows themself? The whole "group" idea bothers me... Everything about it is a stereotype. I guess it bothers me from personal experience... At the high school I attended, I never "fit in" anywhere, because I like a variety of things, I like a variety of people, etc. and in my high school there was a lot of strict segregation between "cliques"... Certain "groups" of people would call me a poser for being a vegetarian for whatever reason... I don't understand why... if it was because I didn't listen to the same music as them, or dress the way they did...whatever THEIR reasoning was, it was stupid of THEM to label me a poser because I went veggie for my own reasons. And at the same time, not one of them took the time out to stop ask me WHY I went veggie, or anything to that affect. Though, I rolled my eyes, and KNEW it was them who were being dull minded and stereotypical, it hurt... it brought a sense of rejection, and it made me feel disliked. I for one, could never reject someone that way after feeling it firsthand. If I don't like someone it's because they treat ME badly; not because of their interests.
Andie.. What a sweet gesture to apologize ... But, I assure you nothing you said was offensive. You stated your opinion, and nowhere did I see you directly put someone else down... I'm happy to see you trying to keep the peace here, but don't let it barricade you from stating your opinion That's what these forums are all about... <333
Thanks you And I do channel it to other means. I do practice martial arts to help control it, and it is a gond channel. I find TaiChi very effective, it calms me and because its a soft system it does not send me in a frenzy. I also write poetry, angsty depressing poetry, but it is poetry. Perhaps my love for violence is rooted in my mind for a reason. Perhaps its just my hatred for what humans have become....
NONONO....be an ultimate street fighter. That way you can work out your tendecies and nobody innocent gets hurt. http://members.tripod.com/cheshire_bridge_qat/bidness_suplys2.jpg
*laughs* As awesome as that would be, street fighting is illegal if I'm not mistaken. And a police record would not look good on a college application. lol
That's great--- I'd love to learn TaiChi. I got started on karate because my boyfriend's mother is a sensei. After I was in it for a while, I just began to notice drastic changes in myself.. I seemed to be a bit more calm about things and the like. The reason I suggested it was because I used to be sort of like you too... I wasn't so much violent towards PEOPLE, as I just loved to throw things and put holes in the walls at our house when I was angry. And I agree with your last statement... I feel the same. I don't hate humans, but I hate a lot of humans ideals, or lack of... and I hate the path a lot of humans have chosen. I suppose the ignorance gets to me most... But, I also learned this...and I have to say it's the best advice I was ever given... Even though a lot of people are irritating, crazy, inhumane...whatever... you won't get any fufillment out of life if you spend it letting it get to you. Everybody is different, and though you or I may not agree with what people are doing these days, it's something you have to learn to live amongst. There are some things that DO need to be changed, but also remember the world will NEVER be perfect. One good thing to keep in mind is that it's THEM screwing themselves over with what they have chosen to do, not you. Give yourself props for choosing a better path than most do! :sunglasse I also enjoyed the way you said you can't handle anyone mistreating animals... that's always a good thing to hear. Most humans can't live amongst each other, let alone the other creatures here on this earth.
But one person can not make a difference in a world controled by a millionaire economy. They are killing this planet for nothing but green paper...it just sickens me...
Oh no, I know, and I agree... and it angers me too... But, what I'm saying is, be proud that you are who you are... that you don't stand for that bullshit ...that you don't destruct the earth you live on, and the creatures around you... and especially that you don't do it for money. I'm not one for egos or anything, but I'd say definitely pride yourself in that... And also remember that it's not just one person, there are many others out there, and on here that feel the way you do. The problem is... none of us organize and do anything about it. I really think that's what needs to be done...soon...or everything is just going to be destroyed. More on what you said... It's sickening how everything that is damaging our sweet earth IS done for money. Oil companies rule the world... A war for oil, pollution because we have nothing else to run our cars off of because the oil companies continuously buy off any and every alternative plan/idea... The meat industry is also large, and is polluting our earth and killing off our animal friends. On top of that all of the waste we produce, and the garbage companies making MILLIONS probably billions off of simply picking up our garbage and piling it in a landfill to rot and pollute. Waste Management is a HUGE corporation that makes TONS of money off of doing just that. And not just that... we're killing ourselves on top of it. All of this pollution is killing us. This war is killing us. And the meat that most of the world eats is killing us off, because people are too selfish to try any other way.