Abortion or Adoption?

darn.

 

every time i don't have sex and get pregnant i'm killing a kid by having my period

 

wow man, i've killed ALOT of kids

 

agreed.

therse a milion different situations of course. I'm not really pro/against. But my cousins baby they found out had a disease, where the baby could live itd just have to take shitty medicine and itd be not fun to endure all the time. But they chose to abort it.

It's just up to the person really. NOW, as someone who isnt healthy either, it kind of breaks my heart to not be able to know who the baby could have been. Because my life is absolutely worth living even though I have to go through pain in the ass shit.

eh. hooray, im on birth control.

 

i've never thought of it that way. shit. and guys produce sperm every day, but women are born with all the eggs we'll ever have. poor unborn eggy babies.

 

HITLER!

 

I actually believe that you are killing something when you have an abortion, and no, not like masturbating or having a period, more like pulling a sprout out of the ground that will become a tree.

I think that you should face facts and be OK with that if you do it.....don't sugarcoat it

I would be ok with that I think, if I ever had to do it, and what I think is pretty irrelevant, I believe its up to the woman, and thats how I ended up doing what I did.

 

Maybe it is sugarcoating it... I dunno...

I've just never ever in my life had any problems with abortion or viewed it as murder. It was actually extremely common for people to get an abortion in Russia... practically everyone I know who's around my parents' age has had one.

Might just be a cultural thing... but... well... I'd honestly rather see people abort their babies in a flood of so called murder than seeing those babies being born to irresponsible parents/ crackheads/ and so on.

...and yeah, people in America seem to judge me for it. Oh well.

 

I agree. Abortion is not just like a period or a wank, but it is killing something. It also leaves a lot of emotional scars on some people. I'm not sure of it being only up to the woman though. Our decision was about (60/40 hers), however if it happened again I would argue for the right to keep my child(I think).

 

I agree, i believe people have the right to do it, I don't consider it murder and it really doesn't bother me

but I fucking hate when people sugarcoat things or lie to themselves, you are ending something that is in every way set to develop into a baby....it's already on its way.

If you do it, realize that and get over it, don't pretend its not a life

Plenty of people have abortions in America too Pavel, you just live in a bible belt state

 

i agree to a point, i was just making a joke about a serious situation, i do that

i'm more likely to adopt a child than to have one...i mean i'd love to have my own, but i dunno there are so many children in this world

like in the ukraine (where my moms side is from) it's amazing how many orphans there are
i want to go there and adopt a child and bring them back to canada
we have it so good here

if i got pregnant there is no way i would give it up for adoption
i'm either not having it, or i'm going to raise it

 

Sorry, i am ready to beat someone's head in tonight for some reason.

To each their own, I have known plenty of girls who had abortions and were fine, and its tortured others

 

This is the way I feel about it. That's why I can't understand this fucking dickhead who was with my friend. He was all for the baby, until it was born, then he wanted to give it up. When she disagreed, he just disappeared.

I had forgotten that there were people like this in the world. It left me, sad, angry and really confused as to how he could do it.

 

i would rather kill a baby before it's developed beyond cells than have it raised in a fucked up way where they would just end up wanting to kill themselves later on

giving a child up for adoption would be alot harder for me than having an abortion...just because then there is a kid that is out in this world that is part of me, someone out there that is part of me i would want in my life, for me knowing that is harder than knowing that i killed what could have been

i'd donate to stem cell research as well

i am so pro stem cell research

 

Yeah, people have 'em abortions here, but it's just not as common and nowhere near as socially accepted.

As I said, I don't believe anything is being "killed" by an abortion. I also doubt that I'd be emotionally scared at all if a girl I was with was to have an abortion. I'd probably be cracking jokes about it more than anything.

 

No apologies needed. Strong opinions are what forums like this need to stay alive.
Peace.

 

Very easy to say without being in the situation.

 

I always used to say to EVERYONE, my mom, family, friends, how I would never have my own babies and I would just adopt them, because there are so many children in the world in need of a family and I thought the idea of having my own child was kinda selfish. Now I would like to do both , well not NOW, but someday.

 

i'm sure it'd be a horrible situation
i don't know, i've never had one
and hope never to

i'm speaking in what i "think" i would do
and every situation is different and i very well may change my tune later on

 

i really foresee myself doing both, i just hope doing that wouldn't effect my kids in negative ways