men arent cowards. boys shouldn't have sex. that way, any possibility of infanticide is gone. pretty simple.
Adoption isn't such a great idea: the woman could get attached to her baby after carrying it for 9 months and not want to give it up which then causes more heartbreak to the adoptive parents and the mother, When the child grows up - think about what s/he'll go through, Everyday that woman will have to wake up knowing that HER baby is in someone elses home with someone else wondering what the babys doing now. its the first b-day etc that sorta thing. After giving birth it'd be hard to just let go and this is something you'd have to live with untill the moment when the child will come back to meet you if s/he decides to. Also what would you do with coathangers?? I mean i get the stairs and punched in the stomach but WTF?? Surely you're not talking DIY abortion...
The ONLY situation in which I might suggest an abortion if is it is plainly obvious that it would kill the mother in the process. For example if the egg was developing in the fallopian tube. Otherwise even if you choose not to keep the child you should at least go through with it and give it up for adoption. I am pro-choice, however, dispite my disagreement with abortion in general. As a man, thus a third party to the whole birthing process it is not my opinion that matters. In the situation that it the baby was mine I would certainly be on the disagreeing end of the decision. However, I could not force anybody though such a life changing event if they chose not to go through with it.
I'm not a guy or anything, but as far as unwanted pregnancies go this is my stance: you shouldn't be afraid to talk about options openly together. I know a lot of people say they could never have an abortion until they are actually in that situation. And even the opposite is known to happen. I think it's outright disgusting when a guy demands that a girl should have an abortion, though. In most situations, having 2 active parents is ideal. I think parents should put their own selfish motives aside for a moment and decide what would be best for the baby's life and future. If that includes having an abortion, so be it. If it's changing your life's plan and raising the child, then great.
