all the loney people...where do we all belong???

You can edit your posts instead of posting twice. I mean, it won't make you any less of an idiot, but you won't look like as much of a twatface.

 

oooo... thank you i did not know that. also appreciate the insult... but I probobly deserve it anyways.....



okay, anyways, let's get back on topic, I dont feel like fighting.

Just one more off-topic thing..... what is a twatface???? sounds..... umm... creative?? no, just kidding, i like that one.

 

Another thing, not too important but I'll share. I've been a person to say, or at least think and do all i could to BE, who would save somebody else. And I would not want to be in a relationship with me as I were then, nor did he in the end. It's codependency, and looking back at my journal from years ago I realize I was not happy by wanting to make him happy even if I were in pain to do so. I wrote things like I wish I could have all his pain so he would be happy. I think I thought if he were happy, I would be happy. But how, with his pain? It doesn't work, having someone to save you even if they start out wanting to, you can only be yourself and responsible for yourself. You can't save someone from themselves and their life. You can give them guidance and hope, but anyone can. It doesn't make you a savior. And it sure as fuck doesn't make them love you any more. If anything, they don't understand why you think they can't survive on their own, almost like you're condescending to them. Love is never save me, save me. I think it's becoming my opinion that all love is, is someone to share your life with, but to each live their own.

 

so is it supposed to say looney or lonely people on the topic title?

 

You must be seeing things. The title is "Read please"

 

my bad. I thought it used the term loney.

 

penny is wise beyond her years

 

ooops... ya I gues "loney" isn't a word.... sorry, my bad.

hey Advaya, I think I agree with you, in a way.... however, for me, I have a feeling only time will tell.....

OoOoOoOoOoO I hate waiting.

also...

yep. that was the point. you discovered the evil plan!

 

I did, but to late to foil you....and after it was pointed out.