you aren't an asshole, you're not really "in the wrong" , but i can see where she's coming from... sometimes it just seems like you would prefer the porn over her, you know? thats what it might feel like. she might feel like you don't need her because you can just turn to porn.. that sort of thing. it would help to talk about it, and really, do you need all those pics on your computer? it depends what kind of relationship you're in i guess. anyways though, i would just talk about it, let her know she hopefully is better than any porn star..etc.
I told my boyfriend that if he wants to look at other girls to get turned on because i dont turn him on or something then he can do that. I dont like it i think that if you have someone and you are in love you shouldnt have to look at or think about other girls. Just think how would you like it if she was looking at other guys from magazines and stuff like that? My boyfriend was caught watching porn by me because he would always delete his history on his computer and i know i shouldnt look because thats his own business but im rarely over there so ill just take a quick peek. But anyways i found it and got upset because i already have issues with my body and wheni found out about the porn it made me think that hes watching it because i dont turn him on. So after all of the fighting we decided to make a home video of me giving him a bj and letting him cum all over my face. Now he proimsed ge wont watch porn anymore because now he has our video to watch.