If anything this thread should be an indication to the guys just how difficult it could and can be for the partners to accept the anal. All good to watch your porn and expect the best in the bedroom, but the reality is a little different. Now if there was some behind the scenes movies of porn of the girls getting ready for action, you might be really upset with what you see. I've been invited to a couple of low budget porn shoots and though I've never seen them have to go through the douche personally, I remember one girl came out of the bathroom and says "ugh, don't go in there for 10 minutes".
In Tristan Taorminos "Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" there is a scene with one of the actresses getting an enima to prepare for a scene. They stop the scene before the water comes out on the American version. C/S, Rev J