Don't be offended, it's a love and sex forum. If it makes you feel better, heterosexual sex is filthy too....
interestingly, we see how different between individuals' perception from this thread. some say not pleasent at all, some love it....
'rimming', the term in bdsm for kissing and/or licking around the puckered orifice, can be very pleasing. both giving and receiving. of course there is risk........as there is in all sexual encounters when more than one single partner is the norm. but given good hygiene before and after contact.......result........yummmmms. penetration.same hygiene applies. female dominants get off by penetrating the male's anal passage. give me head every time, over anal.
Given it but only when she asks for it, But I think the main thing is that proper anal sex in a loving relationship is not the violent hammering that you see on porn films and despite what they show on the screen a bit of saliva is no adequate lube! I enjoy it and she enjoys it but only when we are both in the mood.